my best friend and i are very close and it seems like we tell each other everything but sometimes we wont be on the same page for example: shel be in a bad mood and il try to cheer her up but she ends up saying rude things to me that kinda hurt and later on when we see each other again she acts like nothing happend and she calls me a "baby" i hate that. anyways, why is it that i care so much? why do i stay mad at her?
2006-07-27 23:00:02 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
She's playing you, holmes. You are totally her yo-yo. Leave her alone. Serious.
2006-07-27 23:05:55 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
How's it feel to be a puppy? Keep running back for more abuse. Make sure that you two are best friends because it's a mutual relationship, not because you are her best friend. Are you sure that you don't want her? Anyway, next time don't let her off of the hook. Tell her that regardless of her state of mind when she's rude to you that at least you deserve an apology. If she doesn't respect you she's not even a friend let alone your best friend.
2006-07-28 06:26:06 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Helo There,
The Lady is being selfish and not think or consider your feelings,In this case Brother, Tell her what you are going through. Just maybe he is not sure that at the end of the day You are hurting. So i think is only Human to express your feelings.
You ve got nothing to loose, tell her what you feel and see if it will make any difference.
Good luck.
2006-07-28 06:41:34 · answer #3 · answered by KKK3 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She's testing your boundaries. You have to be strong enough to stand up for yourself or this will only get worse as she learns how much you will take before you blow up. You seem to be suffering under the delusion that you have to please people for them to be your friend. Real friends are people who try to be a blessing to you and you do the same for them. Even when that means doing what isn't pleasant for them but they later come to appreciate as a caring gesture. Don't be pissed, just don't take it.
2006-07-28 06:13:43 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Because she's disrespecting you and then ignoring it. When people dont apoligize for their hurtful actions it makes the wound a little deeper. In this case, I think she's playing with your feelings and its pissing you off.
~Rickeisha
2006-07-28 06:06:16 · answer #5 · answered by Rickeisha AKA Keisha 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋