am single,says his wife lives in another state.i have a boyfriend.
2006-07-27 22:53:52 · 30 answers · asked by babygal 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
duh!
And what gives you the right to take the place of his wife who her husband vowed loyalty to?
Why are you wasting your time with someone who can't keep his vows and cheats?
What do you have against his wife? What did his wife do to you that you feel that you should intrude in her most intimate relationship of her life that she vowed her soul to?
The man is just using you for sex and don't give a crap about you other than getting inside your knickers. Why give him his conquest?
Why not you go and get yourself some badly needed self respect?
He is a fraud of the worst kind and you are gullible.
Why should any future husband trust you with loyalty if you can come inbetween someone elses relationship.
This is more than just having sex this is a very serious matter that you have no right to be involved. Stay away from this cheat else should you get married then what trust is their in your realtionship and how would you feel if some other woman stole what belong to you?
2006-07-27 23:00:06 · answer #1 · answered by Gingerbread Man 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
It's ok if you know how to play the game by the rules. Since you already have a boyfriend, why do you still want to have an affair with a married man? To satisfy your sexual urges? Unless you do not have a boyfriend, I would say yes, by all means have an affair with a married man but abide the rules of the game. Since you have boyfriend, then no no is the answer. You wouldn't want to hurt him do you?
2006-07-27 23:52:11 · answer #2 · answered by Lawrence 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Huh? You're single, but you have a boyfriend?
First of all...no. It's not ok to have an affair with a married man.
Whether you believe in the law of karma or not, you will attract a lot--and I mean a lot--of negativity into your life just by doing that. Since you have a boyfriend, not only are you hurting the wife of the man, but you're also hurting your boyfriend. It doesn't matter whether they never find out about it or not. You are hurting their being by cheating on them. Most importantly, you are hurting yourself and you are fragmenting your soul. You DO NOT want to do that--trust me. Remember, everything you do in this life is paid for later--whether in this life or the next. Do positive things, and positive things will come to you; do negative things, and bad things will stick to you.
I look at it like this: People who break into cars to steal car stereos, for example. What comes out of that life? You wait until it's about 3 or 4 in the morning...you scurry around in the dark, waiting for darkness to cover your tracks...always looking over your shoulder, like a rat in a dumpster. You are really smart at what you do: you are meticulous in studying the neighborhood you're going to hit. You might even know what time the police cars usually pass by, so you know exactly when to strike. You mash up the ceramic part of used spark plugs and put them into a plastic bag so you can hurl it at a car window and break it without making a noise, just like the older boys taught you how to do. You know your job perfectly and no one sees what you're doing. You even have a private stash in some alleyway to dump the stolen stereo if you see a cop car coming--that way even if you're suspected of breaking into a car, there's no evidence on you. You are a master at your craft. No one knows you are the one who has broken into 30 cars in the past month. No one can put the finger on you. After a while you don't even think it's a crime because it comes so easily to you. You are the perfect car stereo thief. You admire yourself. No one sees what you are doing at night because you hide away so perfectly. No one suspects you.
Guess what? Maybe no one sees you, but someone is watching.
It's yourself.
2006-07-27 23:28:38 · answer #3 · answered by ♣Tascalcoán♣ 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you were married and your husband was having a affair with someone else how would you fell so change the question:
How do i feel about my husband having an affair with another person thats what his wife will ask when she finds out
AND if hes goes off and divorces her adn marries her theres always that question is he cheating on ME now?
2006-07-27 23:01:56 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you have a boyfriend why go for a married man, married man just wants to have fun, and the outcome will be, you will end up getting bashed up by the wife, which will serve you right.
2006-07-27 23:07:30 · answer #5 · answered by khepo 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Does he just say it or do you know it's a fact. Yes it's OK but you have to realize that their are consequences to this kind of relationship. Don't do the crime if you are not willing to do the time.
2006-07-27 22:57:23 · answer #6 · answered by Jim C 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Have love affair with your boyfriend and have sex with that married man!
2006-07-27 22:57:44 · answer #7 · answered by gnphyd 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You have to decide that on your own. I don't think I couldn't because of my set of morals, but your morals are your own. Who is to say that your thoughts are wrong and mine are right. You have to choose your own guidelines and live by them, despite the opinion of anyone else.
2006-07-27 23:00:23 · answer #8 · answered by rexall_addict 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No....Why would you ask such a stupid question? ...and who in the nine hells EVER told you that such a thing was okay? There are names for people like you that I shall not name on this site.
2006-07-27 22:58:33 · answer #9 · answered by spider 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No.Do you ever think about his wife.She will suffered.Please think before you do something.I adviced you as a friend,I don't want to get into troubles.
2006-07-27 22:58:31 · answer #10 · answered by misha 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋