Would you forgive your partner if they cheated on you?

Question

My girl must be dumb because i cheated on her 4 times and she forgave me every time

Answer 1

No, because as you illustrate, "once a cheater, always a cheater."

Answer 2

Yes I will forgive my partner if she cheats on me, but there are conditions.She sould able to be honest with me and tell me the reason why she cheats on me.honesty is the key condition for a relationship to last long. the two partners should be able to accept the truth.A relationship should not base on sex.a personne can love someone willing to spend his live with him and still have a sexual relationship with some body else.The problem is that the being with some body else can put your relationship in danger.

Answer 3

Yes. U said partner, means both are @ fault & cheating each other. Cheating on partner means cheating yourself too. won't U forgive youself 4 that matter ? Pl. don't do that again with such a good, kind girl.

Answer 4

I'd forgive him eventually but, our relationship would be over, I' deserve better and its a shame your gf doesn't think she deserves better than you. What's even sadder is your lack of respect for her, not only do you cheat on her but you call her dumb for actually believing what you say to her. Why dont you tell her that you will cheat again( cause you know you will), tell her to move on to a bigger, better man and you can go find some slag who hopefully disrespects you,

Answer 5

You sound like you're taking advantage of your gf's love and you act very smug about it. You are hurting her a lot! If you don't want to be faithful, than you should end the relationship - but i see you're too selfish for that.

nobody wants their relationship to fail. most people don't forgive infidelity, it is the highest form of disrespect to love. but some relationships can survive it as long as it never happened again and the person that cheated showed genuine remorse. it takes a lot of hard work though. you don't fit in that category and you need to be by yourself indefinitely.

Answer 6

Yes, she's "unwise". She must be very insecure and have no self-esteem. You should dump her if you care for her even in the slightest!
Now, I'd only forgive them once for something like that. But, like they say, "Once a cheater always a cheater". The second time would tell me that he's not serious about being honorable or faithful.

Answer 7

not a chance once a cheater always a cheater,why cheat just break up instead,but i must ask u do you feel better about yrself or maybe u were not man enough to just break up with yr girl.but how do u know if she cheated on u as well that why she always forgives u.

Answer 8

maybe she's is dumb for forgiving you, but let's look at you: what kind of person are you to cheat on your gf? Do you even love her? Why are you stringing her along?

Answer 9

Forgive, yes. Forget...No, Stay...No... Must be dumb? NO- she must be In Love. DUMB- look in the mirror, THERE- "MUST BE DUMB" will be. Question... DO YOU- or, "HOW" can u, forgive yourself for Purposely hurting her heart; again and again???!!! Guess just TOO DUMB to Care.....

Answer 10

no way man i love her and all but if she cheated on me then she threw it all away.she not dumb man just in love with u.thats wrong how u do that to her.if u dont care for her let her go so she can find a guy who will treat her right.id hate my partner if they cheated.

Answer 11

I think it depends on the situation.. definetely not if I am dating, or married without children.. but children stress out a situation, and you have to think as your family as a whole before you go and separate it..
Your girl probably only has low self esteem and doesn't realize she could do a lot better..