Can someone help me understand this guy?

Question

I met this guy through a mutual friend, and we became e-mail pen pals for six monthes. He would write me long letters everyday, and I would write them back. I met him, we had an amazing meeting. He told me I was like one he's ever met before, and I felt the same. He's a very hard worker, and has been planning something with his friend that is going to make it, so he has been working hard for a long time, so part of his life is wrapped up in things that kind of came before me. On our second date he asked me what he would do if I asked him to marry me, he wanted to know how devoted I was to him. He told me he wants to make a lot of money all the women in his life. He has a tendency when he is stressed with work or something in life to shut down and not speak or communicate with anyone, so sometimes I won't hear from him for a couple of days or a week or two, but now it has been a month He told me he is going through some problems and that he needs to "figure himself out".

Right now we are "friends.", because he likes to move slow and dosn't want to mess anything up with me. Before we met, he told me he wouldn't be a very good boyfriend right away because he going to be working too much. Do you think the loves me as much as I love him?

He was also SEVERELY hurt by his last girl, so he is a little unsteady about getting into a relationship.

Answer 1

what he means that wants space so just tell him how you feel about him now if you told him how you feel then you dont have anyhthing to worry about if you told him you love him

Answer 2

i think ...... u tell him everything u think of him ........ and let him decide ....... what to do now ....... if he likes u .... he will definately tell u ........ and if he not ........ he will not .... ask him frankly ...... kahin aisa na ho ki der ho jaye