One man is younger than me. The other is older than me (the new one).
2006-07-27 21:46:33 · 17 answers · asked by howIdreamforyou 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
been there! exact situation! my ex was 12 years older( 43 at the time)... great guy! wanted to marry me... the new is 14 yrs younger( 18 at the time) ,,, one of my best friends in life... i had to choose... i couldn't .... older dude got sick of my friendship with the younger and chose for me( i was leaning that way anyways)... said good bye... i felt kinda sad but definitely off the hook! i couldn't stand to have to choose because i wasent sure the right answer.. i dident want to be wrong.... but I'm vary happy with my younger guy... we have a good life! I'm 33 hes 19...lol.. good luck!
2006-07-27 21:49:36 · answer #1 · answered by pinksgirlfriend 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Go for the older one!! He's probably more mature. But then again, go for the younger one!!! He's probably more fun. Go for the cuter one!! He's funner to look at. But if they are both cute, go for the fun one that is also mature. Good luck!! And be glad that you have two incredible guys to choose from. Some gals like me..have no one.
2006-07-28 04:49:54 · answer #2 · answered by mlove1307 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, you don't have to...no one can make you...but you should because it is not fair to the guy.
What I am saying is ..if your a just dating around and juggling a few guys...that is fine...but if you are trying to get into a serious relationship then you might want to consider picking one guy and sticking to him.
I recommend you pick a guy based on a list you can make for yourself...what do you want in a guy, what qualities, what kinda look do you want him to have, and etc...once you make that list up...compare both guys to the list and see which one meets most of your needs and pick that one...because...if you pick the other guy you will be upset that he doesn't have the qualities and stuff you put on you ideal guy list.
2006-07-28 04:51:28 · answer #3 · answered by Strawberry 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Because ur head n heart dont go together.Still elders shoud be better. If u are a female? Difference should be minimum 6 years between male n female as par Rishi Daya nand.
2006-07-28 04:55:44 · answer #4 · answered by raashi 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
the older one will probably always take care of you becoz hes more mature. the younger guy would probably have problems becoz guys dont like girls that are older, at least their friends will talk behind his back, and maybe even his family.
2006-07-28 04:52:39 · answer #5 · answered by GigaHard 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm bi, married for over 14 years, and swing. Just do what I do, have two men if you want them. LoL Isn't that hard to figure out, just break away from the sheep mentality of society deciding what laws garden us as people.
(That means you can have whoever you want in your bed)...
2006-07-28 04:50:52 · answer #6 · answered by Inked Fantasy 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
To choose for what? If it is just friendship, it doesnot matter. You can have both as your good friends. If its for dating, Ideally the older guy will suit better!!!!
2006-07-28 04:49:49 · answer #7 · answered by THE WORRIER 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why not have both? Date both guys, but be honest about it. Let them both know that you are not ready to commit to either of them. Of, maybe you are ready to commit to one. How many years separate you from the guys?
But you answer your actual question, I think that God might hate one of the guys... because one will be runner up and will probably not like it. I know I didn't.
2006-07-28 04:59:04 · answer #8 · answered by Wyld Stallyns 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Gurl, some women can't even find one good man and here you are with two. Consider yourself lucky.
2006-07-28 04:48:50 · answer #9 · answered by makeherwett 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
For goodness sake - haven't you got a coin handy?
2006-07-28 04:49:18 · answer #10 · answered by ElderStud 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋