Well at least you acknowledged it instead of acting on it but..... Sweetie you need to seriously understand that it is not nor ever will be right to act upon! I don't know how you can feel this way but at least your aware of it. Let me tell you something...
About 6yrs ago my brother raped me. He is 3yrs older than me and we were always close because we had terrible parents growing up and had to grocery shop, cook, clean house, laundry, everything we should not have been responsible to do for the whole family at our ages (between7-15). We were parents to each other in a way. Mom worked 6am-6pm and when she wasn't working went gambling until 3am. Dad worked 6pm-6am and was having affairs with many women when not working.
As we got older (between15-20) we stayed close while our parents finally were going through divorce. My father moved his girlfriend in the same day my mother moved out. He forced us to see our mother even though we didn't want to see either of them. After this change we saw our father more and didn't wish to spend time with him. So my brother and I spent more time with our friends and had many of the same mutual friends.
We were at a two day christmas party and horse show/sale with a lot of friends. The night we left to go home is the night it happened...
I was tired and my brother said he wasn't and could drive without me awake to talk to him so I went to sleep on the passengers seat. I woke up about 45mins later with him over top of me and my clothes in disaray. I won't go into details but a county sherrif approached the car as he was curious as to why a car was parked in a vacant lot and running in a small town at 2am. When the cop asked what was going on my brother shook his head no to me but I had to tell, he needed help!!!
After all was done I found out later from his phyc evaluation that he had thought of me this way before and had said he was in love with me!!! The only request I gave the authorities before knowing this was for him to get the help he needed. But didn't realize that he had sexually abused one of my dads girlfriends 8yr old daughter before this incident! He has since been sexually assaulting even his own girlfriends after all of this! He has yet to recieve help for his problem which has gone beyond what it started as. His so called being in love with me has nothing to do with me but more to do with his insecurities that he deals with in a sexual way. He may be out of hope now to ever get better. He has been in and out of jail over the last 6yrs and is currently on home detention waiting for the jail to have room for him for breaking his probation again. He even to this day accuses me of ruining his life when in reality he has ruined mine and our relationships within our whole family.
Please for yourself and your sister that you believe you are in love with, seek good phyciatric help as soon as you can!!! You must understand that this is not natural or right in ANY way at all!!! I would hope your sister loves you as she should love her brother and tells somebody about this so you and her can get heathy and enjoy the normal brother and sister relationship you are supposed to.
Best of luck to you, please don't ruin your life or hers!
2006-07-27 22:10:13
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answered by ? 4
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That's incest. Your sister is right to be afraid of what to do. Are you sure you're not just feeling "sisterly love" towards your SISTER. If you are really in love love with her than you seriously need to get out of the house and see how many great girls there are that you aren't related to! Being with your own flesh and blood is NOT the answer. Can you imagine how sick it would be to be your baby's father and uncle?
2006-07-27 21:30:28
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answered by mlove1307 6
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I think is wrong to be in love with ur sister. Go 4 another girl or woman.
2006-07-27 21:31:34
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answered by mikejolyemsegun2006 2
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INCEST.
You are whats wrong with this world. You its ok just because is suits you.
Get yourself someone not related to you f**ko and lets make the world a better place.
2006-07-27 21:35:21
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answered by sooooo angry 3
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havent u seen that one movie where the dude and chick on the island and theyre like step brother and sister? has word lagoon in it cant remember the name well anyways u should go for it! PS CAN I FUCI{ YOUR SISTER?
2006-07-27 21:30:25
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answered by Anonymous
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ur really a man of waste.. She s not ur sister da.. U should treat her as ur child.. Mad dog try to change ur thoughts.. Otherwise ur the ugliest man in this world..
2006-07-27 22:22:21
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answered by visakagn 3
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well you know it isnt the right thing to do,,or you wouldnt be asking this question..keep your distance,it's your sister dude!!
2006-07-27 21:55:43
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answered by Anonymous
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Have you gone nuts
2006-07-27 21:32:15
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answered by Anonymous
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r u a muslim..for i have only heard of muslims marrying..their brothers or sisters..
2006-07-27 23:45:08
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answered by Anonymous
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omg . forget about it
2006-07-27 21:30:11
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answered by Anonymous
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