2006-07-27 21:06:54 · 24 answers · asked by favoritecolorsblue 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Thx everyone for their answers. Igreatly appriciate it.
2006-07-27 21:27:15 · update #1
Do nothing!! Stay away you home-wrecker!!!
2006-07-27 21:09:11 · answer #1 · answered by Lothario 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No don't do it....He is a cheating B***** and you would be wrong for even considering it. There is a married man that is attracted to me right at this moment and I'm disgusted with him because I wonder how can he just disrespect his wife like that. I'm not going to be no one's mistress and you shouldn't either. Now go find a man that is SINGLE and is not married. You will save yourself the drama and the pain. Girl you are smarter and better than that. Remember You Are Better Than Some Side W****. Be strong and GOOD LUCK!!! AGAIN DONT DO IT!!!
2006-07-28 04:14:51 · answer #2 · answered by skyblu513 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't Do anything, he's taken.
Look through his eyes wife and ur married some1 u love and adore so much.
U don't knw what he is up 2, ur so confused and worried about lossing him.
Marriage is not something u can play with...men fear to be stick with the same women but when they have the chance to be with another he is a cheater.
I think u have 2 say out of it, tell him that he most love his wife and try being a friend 2 support him.
That what u do...don't talk 2 him as u want him....talk 2 him as u want 2 help him.
2006-07-28 04:13:32 · answer #3 · answered by *~`h!8@Q 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Let me Ask you this, put yourself in his wifes position would you want your husband to dump you for another Woman, before you say well if that made him happy, yes indeed love is about Loving each other and putting your feelings aside but you also have to think is that what you want also.? the thing of Like Love, and lust is, You or he might be lusting and you are dwelling into temtation and I chance it might turn out bad might put the stakes high. If you really like this guy you should care about the feelings of his wife saying I wouldnt want my busband to dump me for some other woman just like that, maybe its best you work things out with your wife, rfor with a relattionship many love to lay blame of she doesnt do this or he doesnt do that but realize it requires both iand if the relationship is going sour they are both lacking something and need to talk it over. do what is right.. follow your heart in this but take heed to the warnings
2006-07-28 04:21:07 · answer #4 · answered by Remedy 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I speak from experience. Pursuing a married individual only causes pain for everyone, you included. Number one if he's willing to cheat on his wife, that doesn't say much for him. If your willing to have an affair that doesn't say much for you. Then you have the wife who is innocent and being hurt. Also if there is kids involved then it's going to hurt them as well because they know all believe me. My advice to you is if he's really a willing participant you need to tell him that he needs to pursue you the right way. If he's willing to sleep with another women then he shouldn't have any problem leaving his wife. You can't just take his word for it. If he's sneaking around on his wife, he could just as well do the same to you. Besides do you really want to share a man? If he's worth pursuing, how much is he really worth if you have to share him with his wife?
2006-07-28 04:18:08 · answer #5 · answered by Tara J 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he can ruin his marriage because he is attracted to you,then whos to say he wont do that to you when he is attracted to the next girl?Even if its all about a fling...examine your self worth and think of yourself as "the other woman". Its up to you but coming from a guys point of view (that would be me) you would be the stronger person to lay down the standards and say no because youre better than that.
2006-07-28 04:12:44 · answer #6 · answered by knuttery 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No poaching. It's bad kharma and if you fall for him, he'll cheat on you, too. Would you want someone to pursue your husband? Don't do it, it's so not worth it. There's plenty of single guys out there, you just need to stop wasting time thinking about a married man and find yourself one.
2006-07-28 04:11:55 · answer #7 · answered by mytreacheryiseternal 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
As long as you're happy with it never going anywhere and you being "the girl on the side". Then there's no problem, if you want anyone else to know about it, or to get married and have kids then you have a problem.
2006-07-28 04:16:15 · answer #8 · answered by stezus 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Back off. Nothing good can come from it. You will end up being hurt. If he was seperated, getting a divorce then you might have a chance of something . Dont settle for being second choice.
2006-07-28 04:11:25 · answer #9 · answered by ella s 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Talk about it with him. Who knows, maybe him and his wife are swingers or polyamorous. But if his wife is not interested in letting him be with you then stay away. She and he are bound by a marriage contract. If he wants you that bad he should should leave her. Not that I recommend that. If he leaves her for you he may leave you for someone else. If he cheats on her he will cheat on you too.
2006-07-28 04:16:08 · answer #10 · answered by Wyld Stallyns 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
stay away.. there's a lot there single guys. Maybe its not your time. Go find your attraction in some other things. Maybe you're not sure about your feelings.
2006-07-28 04:13:22 · answer #11 · answered by Sweetbaby 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋