Why is that guys don't ask you out or even bother to have a nice conversation with you unless you're all dolled up. At work or school, whenever I dressed plain, with very little make up on, sometimes wear eye glasses, and my hair tied in a pony tail or a bun, guys ignore me and don't want to talk to me when I try to strike up conversation. But when I dress like I'm going out, wearing cute clothes, (nothing skanky), have make up on (but not heavy), have my hair down, and leave the glasses at home, then guys notice me and now they care about what I have to say about me. They also whistle & holler from cars. Why is it that it's difficult for me to find nice decent looking guys to talk to regardless of how I look? The kind of guy I like are guys who aren't too good looking. I like guys who don't realize that they are sexy. I tend to go for guys who is slightly below the level of attractiveness that I'm in. I'm not a below average looking person. People told me I'm pretty and cute.
2006-07-27 20:34:56 · 7 answers · asked by pureessence 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Almost all guys that are cute on the outside are almost always ugly on the inside. If they don't hit on ya when you area all natural they are obviously materalistic and aren't worth wasting your time on. I've always went by "it's what's on the inside that counts". Beauty is only skin deep!
2006-07-27 20:45:55 · answer #1 · answered by Ultimate Trip 3 · 2⤊ 1⤋
From the kind of guy you say you like, I can pinpoint you're problem exactly.
They don't ask you out, because they think you'll tell them no. They have plenty of reason to think this - it is what they've grown used to. People adjust to their own "levels", specifically "nice" guys do anyway. They don't risk things that they maybe should, because that risk has gotten them emotionally bitchslapped too many times.
Your answer? If you want the guys who aren't throwing yourself all over you with catcalls, then you have to seriously take the initiative. And, that means MORE than just being nice and talking to them. It means actually bringing up the subject of going out with them specifically. That is, if you like a guy - ASK HIM OUT. Don't wait for him to do it - you'll be waiting forever.
2006-07-28 03:42:15 · answer #2 · answered by lotherius 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Because most guys are very shallow,I'm like you in a way i see attractiveness in people who don't know there good looking,it a quality i always look for,they tend to be the people who are most genuine,like i feel you are. You gave me some very good advice the other day,and i truly took it on board,its a shame we couldn't meet up ourselves!! if you would like to chat someday pls feel free.Turnbel6@yahoo.com. thanks again for your response the other day. Colin
2006-07-28 12:57:12 · answer #3 · answered by Colin T 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well u should try to act a lil bit normal and try to be friendly with everybody when you least expect it that guy will notice you and ask you out..because guys like that ussualy can easily fell from someone whos like nice and outgoing and some of them are a lil bit shy..so shy guys are ussualy hard to understand so good luck with that.. well thats what i think.
2006-07-28 03:42:41 · answer #4 · answered by val2rex 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hey , Hey, little sweetie , I am an old fart but pretty good looking, if you are a nice person then i would be happy to talk to you. you must never fret always be yourself and you will always find companionship......
best wishes to you .
2006-07-28 03:47:49 · answer #5 · answered by Givingitthought 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you trying to hard see im easy to talk to and ive never seen you.
2006-07-28 03:39:49 · answer #6 · answered by WIZZARD 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
not all guys are same, iam different
bye
2006-07-28 03:40:02 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋