i've been with my b-friend for 2.5 yrs and he cheated once.After hering him out and finding out who it was with I agreed to stay with him. A few months later the b**** has the nerve to go work where my b-friend and I work at. Now I have 2 ?'s Would you confront her? Would you stay after someone cheated on you. Answers from guys are more than welcome.
2006-07-27 20:13:26 · 9 answers · asked by dragonfly 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
ok more details.... i'm 27 he's 31. we live together.plnned to marry in about 3more yrs. she liet to him about getting pregnant,she knew that would be the only way he would leave me.He cant get any one pregnant (naturally).So he hates her and has not spoken to her since the day she called to tell him her news. she totally knew about me and she threw herself at him(am not defending him at all) all the while her hubby was in the hospital dying.I've never confronted her,i'm way better than she'll ever be.one more thing...she would tell him that he was not man enough to **** her.that any guy would f*** any girl who was offering it up like she was.she said he didn't have the balls to do her
2006-07-27 20:50:31 · update #1
I stayed with my Bf but i think it's really up to you Do you love hime and can you really forgive him. If you can't forget about it you will fight over this all the time and you will never trust him. No I don't think you should confront her i really think that is what she wants you to do. You know how ***** can be.
2006-07-27 20:20:14 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 2⤋
If she didn't know that he had a girlfriend, No I wouldn't confront her, But I'd probably ask my boyfriend do he still contact her, and where do they stand, as in a friendship, or do they just not talk to each other anymore. If I had been with someone for two and a half years, yea I'd try to forgive and forget, but if it happens more than once. Well, I would talk to him about it first. Then if I just don't wanna risk being hurt again, I'd leave him.
2006-07-28 03:20:36 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I wouldn't stay with him. He didn't have enough respect for you to stay faithful. Then come back to you and give you some line so you would stay with him. I would confront him first b/c he is the one that can tell her to stay away and that HE isn't interested. If you go to her, that is going to make her want to go after him even more. He is the one that cheated, rather than telling her no in the first place. So many people say to go after the girl, but your man is the one who said yes and couldn't keep his dick in his pants.Confront HIM!!!
2006-07-28 04:09:24 · answer #3 · answered by erica/gabriel 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Left out some important info...how old are you, do you live together, have you discussed marriage, is the floozie after him, etc.
Need more info.
2006-07-28 03:17:57 · answer #4 · answered by Capt Jack 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No i would not stay with anybody who cheated on me. when i am in a relationship i give them 120% of my time mind body & sole. So no hun you can do better. Or smack her
2006-07-28 03:17:22 · answer #5 · answered by scarlet pimpernell 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I would not stay with someone who cheated on me, becuase if they got a way with it, they will do it again.
2006-07-28 03:19:16 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Kick her @ss and then Smack the sh!t outta him. After that just move on!
2006-07-28 03:19:32 · answer #7 · answered by Abilaucifer 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
kick to the curb
2006-07-28 03:19:19 · answer #8 · answered by Kord 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hell no...under any circumstance i wouldn't
2006-07-28 03:18:24 · answer #9 · answered by ~Princess~From~Hell~ 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋