Deepdown am I also that bad girl?

Question

Ok, I am that kind of nice Asian girl based on the stereotype in my culture. Grow up in a traditional Asian family, smart, nice/polite to everyone, went to top private schools, well-travelled etc.If my mum did not allow me to date a boy, I would not cheat her and study hard for her so she can show off to other mums-

But after living in the U.S. for a while especially after dating a very attractive european guy, I just realized how much I had missed in all of my high school and college as being a so-called "good girl". Also I kept getting hurt by dating attractive western jerks here since in my culture I was taught always taking dating seriously. I had 4 hot/smart european and Amerian boyfriends in the last one year, now 3 of them wanted to come back, I dont want to! I want to know how much I missed and how I should catch up-how would be being a mean/wild girl?

Answer 1

Have some fun, but don't get into trouble.

Answer 2

Sure, just go out and party like crazy. Have fun. Don't get pregnant or nothin', but LIVE like there's no tomorrow. Date guys, leave guys, whatever, just have as much fun as you can. Don't go back to your exes, there's a reason they're your exes, so that's not changed. I like the "asian stereotype", but nothing wrong with a bad girl either.

Answer 3

is your question about becoming a bad girl to makeup for all the stuff you missed in highschool/college?

I wouldnt say thats the best way to go about it. Just have fun!! And enjoy life. If your an adult, then enjoy it how you see fit.

good luck and best wishes

Answer 4

Umm... are you asking how to be wild? I guess jsut do things spontaneously. If you have doubts on a risky choice, go with the risk. I don't know. That's not always the best policy to live by though.

Answer 5

Just be true to who you are! Really! In the meantime, just try to be a better judge of character!

Answer 6

I don't understand your question.