OKay there's this guy whose been crushing on me this year, and i guess its because i've "matured" and kinda grew up..and last year I was a little chubby (still had my baby fat) but he would always make fun of me and make me feel miserable and i hated him. Now that my body has changed a lot, he wants to go out with me. I really want to say no for revenge and because i could feel staring at my breast the whole time he was talking to me, but i really want a boyfriend. What should I do? Shoudl i go out with him?
2006-07-27 19:45:39 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
NO NO NO NO NO
You can find a Brazilian boyfriend. How many is a brazilian? I mean - a million other boyfriends.
SCREW HIM!
2006-07-27 19:48:31 · answer #1 · answered by Lady 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no way girl he made u self esteem low and hurt u.why would u want a guy like that so now u changed and hes fronting now.i dont think so girl u know u dont need him.if hes after u im sure others are to.u need to just tell him ur not my type and that will make him feel like low.u get what u give.he made u feel low and now u can do the same.u want a bf and all he wants is sex i bet.thats why hes staring he wondering how u look naked.so be smart girl go look for another guy if u want a man.there other guys out there.so no dont go out with him.hes not worthy for u.good luck
2006-07-27 20:04:33 · answer #2 · answered by SLICK 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Uhhh.... NO. Because after he is done with you he will leave you and then you will be all heart broken and will take it on the next and on the next and in a few years you will finally find a really nice guy who many not look as good as the others and who will love you truly and to whom you will make life a living hell and whom you will never trust because of all the crap the previous ones did to you. And in a decade or two he will get sick and tired of your crap and will move on with someone younger that you and will begin the same vicious circle you once started
2006-07-27 19:50:34 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
No. Why would you even consider it?? Do you like guys that stare at your breasts and made fun of you when you were fat?? If you really want a boyfriend, then wait for the right one. Don't just date someone just to do it. You are wasting your time. Don't date just cuz he likes you either. Have some self-respect. Don't even talk to this loser. He just wants you in bed and thats it.
2006-07-27 19:51:12 · answer #4 · answered by audioslave355 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No way, hose!
not unless you're blind, but it's obvious he's just after sex, that's all!
My take is,... with this new found confidence and a hot bod you have now is to get a guy that's worth your time.
And make sure when you get that next great guy, show it to that bastard!
2006-07-27 19:53:59 · answer #5 · answered by dun_give_ a_ damn 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
UR BF IS MEANT TO MAKE YOU FEEL GOOD ABOUT YOURSELF NOT MISERABLE!! IF HE SAID THOSE THINGS TO YOU THEN WHAT HAS CHANGED EXCEPT YOUR BODY. HE WILL STILL BE A PRICK AND HE MIGHT USE YOU OR HURT YOU.
!!DONT DO IT!!
IF YOU REALLY WANT A BF YOU CAN FIND ONE BUT DONT SELL YOURSELF SHORT BY GOIN OUT WITH THIS LOSER
GOOD LUCK AND I KNOW YOU WILL FIND SOMEONE WORTHY OF YOU!!
2006-07-27 19:53:20 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your can do better than that and you know it! He is a jerk that only wants one thing. Do you want to be used? I didn't think so. There are much better guys out there who are more interested in your mind than your breasts. Besides he had his chance to be nice and HE BLEW IT!
2006-07-27 20:05:52 · answer #7 · answered by Angel 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you wanna go out with him, do it. Don't ask other people to make your decisions for you. And uh, being fat has nothing to do with not being "matured"...you probably just ate too many Twinkies.
2006-07-27 19:48:30 · answer #8 · answered by Everything 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i do not suggest you go out with him. why would you want to go out with a guy who actually talks to your breast and not to you. do not get so desperate. even if you wanted a boyfriend, find someone who appreciates who you are and not how big i your breast. say no to him.
2006-07-27 20:07:37 · answer #9 · answered by capricorn_bay 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Nah, cuz you'll always remember that he made fun of you. You can always get revenge on him if you want.
2006-07-27 19:48:32 · answer #10 · answered by Jimbo 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋