We've been dating for several months and got more involved these two months. He just told me that his ex still lives in his house and would move out in a month. They are just roommates. But I discovered that they still go out together during weekends. He wouldn't pick up my call when he was at home and wouldn't take me to public area. He asks for my patience and support and says that he loves me. I feel that he has cheated on me already. Should I call his ex to find out or just wait and give him a chance?
2006-07-27 19:27:05 · 16 answers · asked by A foggy day 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Trust is the key to a relationship... If you don't trust him or feel that he has cheated already then maybe u too shouldn't be together... He has given you a reason not to trust him.. Also, he has kept a very important thing from you, that is that his ex still lives there...I wouldn't lower my standards if i were u, by calling the ex... She's not the one at fault, It is his fault.. also if he has kept this secret from you it could possibly be that she is still his gf..
2006-07-27 19:34:15 · answer #1 · answered by lababy1974 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
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2016-10-15 07:15:09 · answer #2 · answered by season 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
HOW OLD ARE YOU AND HOW STUPID ARE YOU? CAN YOU THINK FOR YOURSELF OR DO YOU HAVE TO ASK SOMEONE IF IT IS TIME FOR YOU TO GO TO THE BATHROOM AND USE THE TOILET? WAKE UP AND LOOK AROUND YOURSELF. THERE ARE 99,000000000 MEN IN THE WORLD AND YOU ARE SO BLIND YOU CAN NOT SEE THAT HE IS FULL OF HIMSELF AND DOES NOT CARE ABOUT YOU AT ALL NO MATTER WHAT HE SAYS. HE DOES NOT TAKE YOU OUT IN PUBLIC, WHAT DOES THAT TELL YOU. WAKE UP, CHANGE YOUR PHONE NUMBER AND MOVE OUT OF STATE AND DO NOT TELL ANYONE, NOT YOUR MOTHER OR YOUR BEST FRIEND THAT IS PROBABLY NOT A GOOD FRIEND AT ALL. WHY WOULD YOU LET SOMEONE TREAT YOU LIKE THAT AND THEN YOU THINK IT IS OK. IT IS NOT. DID YOU SEE THE MOVIE "WOMEN THOU ART LOOSE" IF NOT, CHECK IT OUT AND LOOK AT IT FOR 20 TIMES TIL YOU GET IT IN YOUR HEAD THAT YOU ARE WORTH MORE THAN THE LIES HE HAS BEEN TELLING YOU AND THE WORSE THING ABOUT IT, HE WILL DO YOU THE SAME WAY HE IS DOING HIS WIFE IF HE WAS TO EVER MARRY YOU WHICH WILL NEVER HAPPEN.
2006-07-27 19:39:37 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Kiddo, I hate to say it...I would wonder she is actually going to move out. If it is over and she is moving out why does he need to hide you? YOU ARE WORTH MORE THAN THAT, LISTEN TO YOUR INSTINCTS.
As for calling the ex, that's dicey --- if you really love him do you want to make it worse for him, or are you just calling to stir-up s$(t? I say best to walk away with your head held high. When he has taken care of business and will show you off and take your calls like you deserve, you can THINK about taking him back.
One last word: my experience, both good and bad has been that how he walks to you might be indicative of how he leaves.
2006-07-27 19:34:26 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I met someone who was in your place once but the difference was that they were NOT roommate and the ex new about her
Plus he showed her the agreement they had with their landlord
But to me it just seems a bit strange! I mean at least he should introduce you and take you to public places
If I were you Id tell him to start to do it or its over! why wouldnt he do it if he has nothing to hide?
2006-07-27 19:31:41 · answer #5 · answered by jimena 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Wait a month. That is not long and is understandable under the circumstances. Stuff happens. Get over it and move on.
2006-07-27 19:29:55 · answer #6 · answered by Jon 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ask him from the bottom of his heart whether he still loves you.Thereafter take a decision whether you agree with what he says or forget about him.
2006-07-27 19:36:17 · answer #7 · answered by Kautukwi Kamukamu 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
NOOOOOOOOOOO dont wait. if it is over the ex should have been gone a long time ago. he has somethig to hide if he cant answer the phone. dont waste ur time
2006-07-27 19:32:41 · answer #8 · answered by m j 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Drop him and allow them to try to patch things up....you are interferring with their relationship! Don't believe anything he says. And remember...he's a cheater.
2006-07-27 19:32:46 · answer #9 · answered by maynerdswife 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
oh hun youre fooling yourself talk to his "roomate" asap and i bet his *** will be out of the house just as soon as she gets off the phone!
2006-07-27 19:30:18 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋