I'm 29 and I'm not sure whether I should keep looking for the right girl to settle down with or just be single? I enjoy being single and can most of the time be ok alone, but sometimes I am lonely on the other hand my previous long term relationship seemed like such a burden even though it was fun to have a companion I loved. I don't know...
2006-07-27 18:28:53 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I'm 31, still single and looking. My tip to you-never settle! Know what you want in a partner and don't except anything less just so you can be with someone, chemistry and compatibilty are important and even though you may be lonely, just know that being happy and content is so important and being single is ok to! Your not even 30 yet, relax and enjoy life and when it happens it happens......good luck!
2006-07-27 18:35:03 · answer #1 · answered by zeekandthefam 5 · 20⤊ 1⤋
Once you resign yourself to being alone and you finally stop looking, she'll show up out of nowhere. It will happen so quickly that it will amaze you. I don't know why it works that way, but it does.
I met my husband when I was 29. We were engaged within two weeks, married within three months and have been married for 18 years now.
I've seen the same thing happen to many others. I think that it is possible to "over think" things when you get into a relationship. When the right one comes along, you will think with your heart rather than your head.
2006-07-27 18:47:15 · answer #2 · answered by JustLookinAround 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I know how you feel and I'm 27 but do not I say do not settle for less! Keep looking.
2006-07-27 18:32:23 · answer #3 · answered by itsme 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well eventuly some girl will come along and be the one to settle down with and be the right one for u
2006-07-27 18:32:54 · answer #4 · answered by alycat 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This is something you have to figure out for yourself...but it might get lonely and wouldn't you want someone you could talk to and go for long walks with
2006-07-27 18:35:39 · answer #5 · answered by Mrs. M 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Just enjoy your life the way it is and don't worry about it. Because when you look you won't find when you're not looking they'll find you.
2006-07-27 18:32:10 · answer #6 · answered by KitKat 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I say you should stop looking, when your not looking, that's when love finds you....corny sounding but true.
Good Luck
2006-07-27 18:33:35 · answer #7 · answered by Renee 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Just have the best life you can. If it happens then it happens. If it doesn't then you had a rich full life anyway.
2006-07-27 18:33:34 · answer #8 · answered by Catspaw 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
just stop worrieing about it and she will find you. when you worrie then your not being yourself. so relax.
2006-07-27 18:34:48 · answer #9 · answered by joe l 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋