what the hell is wrong with me? I dont find masterbation even the least bit satisfying, i dont get anything from it at all. Even sex, i cant seem to enjoy it. over-rated or just me?
2006-07-27 18:26:38 · 28 answers · asked by capoeirista 3 in Health ➔ Other - Health
There's nothing wrong with you.
Often, when people lose interest in sex (or don't have any interest in the first place) is is for hormonal reasons, especially if you are female. (There are a lot of harmless ovarian conditions, like poly-cystic ovaries, that cause hormonal imbalances.) For that matter, if you are female, it could be as simple as not getting enough folic acid in your diet. (Eat more beats, and Leafy green vegetables.) The funny thing about your body's hormones is that they can make you not want to do things. For example, losing your appetite, or loosing interest in sexual activities.
The important question to ask yourself is, how do you feel about it? While there might be an underlying medical condition, it's always possible that you just aren't keyed up for physical stimulation. Do you feel well otherwise, and do you sleep well and get a healthy diet?
As far as "not doing things right" is concerned, well, it is important not to try to force yourself to enjoy it. If you like it, you like it, and if you don't then you don't. But forcing yourself certainly won't make it any better for you.
2006-07-27 18:39:37 · answer #1 · answered by Maradiera 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
A lot of females do not like or have to masturbate. As for the sex part... maybe you don't enjoy it because of the partners you have chosen. What I mean by that is, you are just going through the motions b/c that's what you think you should do, but your heart really isn't in it. If you wait until you find someone that you REALLY care about you will feel a lot differently. When you love someone it makes sex really awesome b/c you are as close as two people can be and that should make it feel good and special to you.
2006-07-27 18:38:30 · answer #2 · answered by devs_mom2000 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It is not just you trust me, I don't always want sex and there was a time when I did not enjoy it. I went to counselling and she told me to try a sex therapist. But at the end of the day nothing works better than talking it over with your partner and experimenting to find out ways to make it more enjoyable.
2006-08-02 05:06:01 · answer #3 · answered by megajen2000 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Some people would say it's just you, but it's not. It could be, but there is also the possibility that it's not just you. I have a friend who was like that for so long, then she talked to a doctor and he sent her to a psychiatrist. After talking with him she found out it wasn't just her. He was able to tell her ways to help her enjoy sex, etc more.
It's better to talk to someone and find out nothing's wrong with you than to not talk and then find out there are ways to make it better.
2006-07-27 18:44:43 · answer #4 · answered by avalon_jdh 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I've heard of this happening to people that take anti-depressants. If you're on those, talk to your doctor about how it leaves you feeling about sex. There are other varieties out there that might help you without this side-effect.
Otherwise, maybe you're depressed in general? Hormone imbalance perhaps? In either case, a trip to the doctor seems logical to me.
2006-07-27 18:31:44 · answer #5 · answered by cricket 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I agree totally, personally I get nothing out of sex or mastrubation. I used to enjoy both as a teenager but as I have grown older the novelty has worn off.
2006-07-27 20:59:39 · answer #6 · answered by monkeymanelvis 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you no what? i think you view sex as a non satisfying ask and a pressure you can do with out. also sex is passionate and enjoyable for both or should be. i think you need to consider your choice of partner. try having sex with a stranger or just someone you quite fancy and see then how you view sex. SAM
2006-07-27 18:45:45 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
you prob dont get anythin from sex because u dont get anythin from masterbation. its a known fact that u av to know your body and how to plessure it 1st b4 any1 else can. i sugest lots of practice, if your female it can be quite normal to find it difficult to climax if your a male you are the only man i know who is not compleatly sex driven
2006-08-03 07:07:24 · answer #8 · answered by rebecca g 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Not being funny but maybe you're not doing it right, either the person's not stimulating you properly or you're not hiting the right spots when doing it yourself - maybe try and experiment more, buy a good book to give you ideas. It 'should' be fun!
2006-08-02 03:19:33 · answer #9 · answered by CindyLoo 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
As the old saying goes, "If you think sex is a pain in the ***, you're doing it wrong"
2006-08-04 11:49:41 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋