MY WOMAN IS HAVING DOUBT ABOUT ME BEEN FAITHFUL TO HER BECAUSE SHE IS FAR AWAY FROM ME. DO U THINK I SHOULD THINK LIKE SHE --I DO LOVE HER BUT IF SHE IS HAVING DOUBT THEN THERE CANNOT BE ANY TRUST.
2006-07-27 18:25:21 · 8 answers · asked by mrlex42 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Doubt does not equal dis-trust. I have been in long distance relationships as well. The doubt comes on so strong because these types of relationships have a horrible effect on your heart. It is not natural to be apart from your significant other for so long. Many marriages and relationships end because of distance. It is very hard to make work. It doesn't mean your realtionship is bad or there is no honesty, it means get close enough to eachother to see what's really there. Love has two sides.....the things you feel and the things you can see..... you might feel a lot of things but your not there to see them. If you can be together and been together for 3 years....what are you waiting for.....?
2006-07-27 18:33:04 · answer #1 · answered by amandajeanus 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
You would think that in 3 years time she would grow to fully trust you, so I don't know why she's having doubts. It's probably just her insecurities getting to her, so you need to reassure her that she's the only apple in your eye. Maybe you could arrange a surprise visit to her, it would be a way to reconnect and spend time with her, and she'll see how important she is to you. Long story short, if it's meant to be it will be, distance should be no object.
2006-07-28 01:33:31 · answer #2 · answered by jellybean24 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well out of experience , I think being in a relationship with someone is about trust and love, Apparantly your girl has got to learn to trust you, talk to her about it and tell her and assure her you are being faithful. If She Really loves You she'd trust you . If Not shows how insecure she is.
2006-07-28 01:40:33 · answer #3 · answered by valerie 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's an understandable concern. I'm in a long distance relationship, and my girlfriend has made a few offhand comments about me maybe cheating on her.
You do need to prove that you haven't been cheating on her. Maybe try calling more often? E-mails, text messages, make it seem like you're constantly thinking about her.
2006-07-28 01:33:41 · answer #4 · answered by LC 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
IF YOU HAVE NOT GIVEN HER A REASON TO DOUBT YOU.
THEN I WOULD SERIOUSLY ASK WHAT REALLY GOING ON.
BECAUSE SOMETHING IS NOT RIGHT. YOU RIGHT IF THERE
NO TRUST THERE THEN THERE NOT MUCH OF A RELATIONSHIP.
2006-07-28 01:30:45 · answer #5 · answered by luckystar 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Absence makes the heart grow fonder?.....don't see it as a truth.
2006-07-28 01:29:19 · answer #6 · answered by Bolder 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe u give her the reason to be insecure,
2006-07-28 01:41:55 · answer #7 · answered by symarcia 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you need to prove to her your not being unfaithful
2006-07-28 01:28:55 · answer #8 · answered by shockwave1_242000 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋