I recently divorced my husband of 18yrs was separated and was dating a younger man both military, the boyfriend was kicked out because of his wife and my ex is still in. I like to drink and my boyfriend knew this, i did drink too much a few times during our relationship, mind you i sold everything to move up to where he was living at with his mother a full blown alcholic she made our lifes miserable, one night i drank too much we all argued and my boyfriend kicked us out of the house. He would tell me 10 times a day he loved me so much as i did him, right now i am hurting so much for him, he has not returned my calls or emails. I feel so stupid and nieve not having a relationship other than my marriage. why do men do this????
2006-07-27 18:16:33 · 8 answers · asked by silihawk 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Hey silihawk,
Or should I say Naive hawk?
The key is said he loved you, NOT "IN LOVE" with you girl. He is a player and a notch on the bedpost guy! Get away and escape girl!!!!
All men do not play and never ever give in to them. Keep your standandards and faith, You are worth it and I adore you girl. so be patient and know someone is pulling for your success.
Hugs and kisses to you,
Jeffrey
2006-07-27 18:35:23 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Because many men are selfish, they love you when everything is going good but the moment things get rough, they bail. Tell him you want a man through thick & thin.
2006-07-27 18:36:48 · answer #2 · answered by Ashley 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well you did this your self bye drinking then when you all started to argue he realize the truth person who you are and know he doesnt want any thing to do with you i dont lame him i would of done the same thing i cant stand people who drink it like they are runing from reality but guess what when you wakeup in the morning and feeling like **** and reality hit you that much more
2006-07-27 18:25:55 · answer #3 · answered by little ace 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
IT SOUND LIKE YOU HAVE SOME ISSUES THAT YOU NEED
TO ADDRESS. LIKE YOUR DRINKING, THAT A MAJOR ONE
AND THE FACT THAT YOU WERE WITH ONE MAN FOR 18YEARS, AND START DATING SOMEONE ELSE. YOU
WERE JUST GETTING OUT OF THAT EMOTION SITUATION
INTO ANOTHER, NEED TIME TO GET SELF TOGETHER
BEFORE STARTING SOMETHING NEW. THEN YOU WILL
DO A LOT BETTER IN THE FUTURE.
2006-07-27 18:24:39 · answer #4 · answered by luckystar 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
maybe you should try stop drinking before you think whether he loves you or not.because do you love him as much he loves you?if yes,it's not just words but action too.....maybe he doesn't like you to drink that much or be like his mother..you know,man will get fed up...try being a decent girlfriend and stop your bad habits..
2006-07-27 18:24:24 · answer #5 · answered by j@NicE 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That's karma. That's all that is. You had not ended your current relationship, and neither had he. Suck it up, chalk it up to a bad experience, learn from it, and move on.
2006-07-27 18:24:23 · answer #6 · answered by Dee M 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It was all a lie just to get what he wants.
2006-07-27 18:19:37 · answer #7 · answered by EMT 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
men are pigs hun they take what they want then cast you aside.
2006-07-27 18:23:21 · answer #8 · answered by YVONNE B 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋