The woman and i just had paid sex. She got pregnant. Years later, she married a Sweden and moved there. When a citizen, she was able to get me to pay child support in Alaska. They're married and her sons have his name. No adoption. All for money. Never had a contact with her. Paid sex in the Philippines. No relationship with them and never will. But I pay child support, nevertheless.DNA years later proved I am, but blood test was negative. What rights am i missing. This is all about money. What are the international laws on a woman marrying a Swedish citizen when she is a Filipina. And taken her son too his country. and years later decide since she's a citizen,come after me for money. Never was a relationship other than sex. No child support in the Philippines. Also, she was a bar girl at that time. Is their any illegal tactics being used. I feel that my lawyer did not defend me. I live in Alaska. I don't and probably never will ever see them. It was all about money and it still is.
2006-07-27 18:15:30 · 7 answers · asked by Mr. Radar 1 in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Other - Pregnancy & Parenting
It doesn't matter how the child was created. If the child is yours you are responsible for them until the turn 18
2006-07-27 18:19:06 · answer #1 · answered by Ryan's mom 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yeah, what do you expect? The sex was all about the money too!
No, sorry I don`t mean to be rude, but with a name like Mr. Radar don`t you think you should be on the look out for gold digging women (especially bar girls) who take advantage of their relations with Australians, Americans and any other predominately white nation to extort money from them for the rest of their lives. I read the Australian Messages boards about this kind of thing all the time. At least she didn`t ask you for a Visa to live in the US as well.
Anyway, you are in a tough situation, I really don`t know how they require you by law to pay child support unless you were in the military there or something. They always get the soldiers!
But since you are paying child support until he turns 18, why don`t you make her life hell by really trying to be part of your son`s life, afterall, he might be a very nice young man who wants to know who his real father is. You are supporting him so you have every right to get to know him.
Maybe once you begin wanting to be part of their lives instead of the other way around she might want you to leave her alone. Also, if you visit her you could somehow bring up the former profession she was in to all of her new relatives if they don`t know already what a nice and decent lady she is.
It can work both ways, stop fighting it! You`d be surpised about how things can change. Possibly for the better, you might get a great son/father relationship since the Swede didn`t adopt him officially, so you still have paternal rights.
Also, don`t go to a prostitue anymore, okay? But I guess you already learned your lesson from that! Turn the Radar on!
2006-07-27 19:27:53 · answer #2 · answered by laracroft 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
To the best of my knowledge, it's not Philippine law that is binding you, it's U.S. Law. You are not the first person to be chased overseas for this, nor will you be the last.
You said that the DNA test proved the kid to be yours or it was negative? Sorry, but I lost you there. Actually at the time of the hearing, you should have been made to take the test. Did this occur?
2006-08-01 10:41:35 · answer #3 · answered by Brock 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No! i think of the youngsters ought to bypass with them! of direction in accordance to those sturdy south of the border relatives values: If there's a situation go away the youngsters they're now no longer of any fee to the criminals! super people those unlawful, immoral criminal invaders! do no longer situation! some one will finally say: The regulations states that they are no longer voters in basic terms with the aid of fact they have been born right here! deliver them residing house! Or have not you spot those charges in congress attempting to try this?
2016-10-08 10:05:35 · answer #4 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
speak to a lawyer
i know in the us.. if the woman marries and the new husband adopts the child as his own then you wont have to pay
hubby's cousin did this.. but you shoud, contact a lawyer who can tell you more info for your situation
2006-08-04 17:06:30 · answer #5 · answered by ♥ Lisa♥ 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Regardless of the manner of conception....the child is yours and child support is eminent! Should of thought of that before you did the nasty with a paid escort. A payment that doesnt stop paying hehe......
2006-07-27 18:22:57 · answer #6 · answered by saultdebbie 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Next time, use condoms!
2006-07-28 02:15:56 · answer #7 · answered by AvantG 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋