well, my boyfriend always talks to my friend, and she likes him, and he knows that. why does he keep talking to her? he knows I dont want him to... and does that mean he is hiding something from me?
2006-07-27 17:38:52 · 18 answers · asked by Julia♥ 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
probably just likes to have his ego stoked(hopefully that was the only thing stoked), basking in the attention he's getting...don't sweat it...feel free to flirt with other guys as well. Men are pigs, that's a given.They just have varying degrees of "porkiness". You just need to find the cleanest hog around, sweetie.
2006-07-27 17:46:37 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
What it means is that you are a fool if you take this type of disrespect. If he truly cared, would he willingly hurt you. Make it your business to not let any male treat you in this manner. Would he like it if the shoe was on the other foot?
Give him his papers! This will let him know you mean business. Let him back only if he show he know and respect how you feel. It may even hurt a bit but only you can maintain your self respect.
2006-07-27 17:48:42 · answer #2 · answered by Robere 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well some guys just do not care what we say.. and they think they can do what they want..and maybe he likes her and wants to get to know her better too.. you can trust very few guys anymore.. i do not know why he would want to upset you though...unless he wants you to get jealous and up his ego..and since both of you like him is ego is probably up there anyway...next time your around his friends i would do the same thing and see how he likes it...and tell him if he can do it so can you..and if things do not go well ,there is plenty more guys out there for you..the father of one of my children married my best friend...and that really hurt me..we were friends for so long and then she did that.. they did not stay together long though..men are losers and some friends are not real friends at all..
2006-07-27 17:46:50 · answer #3 · answered by sanangel 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If she is your friend than she should be his friend. Maybe he is also good friends with her. Talk to him about it and talk to her. He may know that but does he know that because you told him face to face or do you mention it a little bit sometimes. Tell her if she is your friend then she should understand your feelings to and if it makes you nervous for them to talk tell her that. I don't think he is hiding anything.
2006-07-27 17:43:26 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It means that he's "priming the pump" so to speak...if you won't lay down and have sex with him, he'll just move on to her and see if she will, if she says no...he'll move on to the next one.
The thing that girls your age do not seem to understand is that they think that the guy gives a flyin' crap about them and what they think and how they feel....ain't true.
The boys care about whether or not the girls they date are gonna let them screw them.....end of story....that's ALL they care about. If you are stupid enough to let him he'll run off and tell every one of his friends....that's how you get the reputation of being a "ho" around school.
However.....sleeping with stupid teenage boys does make you very popular....with every boy that thinks he can nail ya too.....
2006-07-27 17:43:26 · answer #5 · answered by Jennifer B 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The better question would be - why do girls have jerk boys as boyfriends? I see all these attractive, seemingly intelligent girls, and then I see their jerk, bossy, aggressive boyfriends (not saying your's is necessarily...) and I wonder what these girls are thinking.
You get what you get. If you don't like your boyfriend, leave him instead of complaining, asking why he does this and that.
2006-07-27 17:43:37 · answer #6 · answered by someguy 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
dude seriously have a talk with him n tell ur so called friend to ***** off cuz shes acting like a backstabber
2006-07-27 17:48:50 · answer #7 · answered by honney bunny 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well, sounds like he might, watch him VERY closely, and im not a sh it. There are a very select few of us that r actually honest and non cheating
2006-07-27 17:43:32 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
He's not hiding anything from you, he just doesn't have the balls to tell you that perhaps he likes someone else.
2006-07-27 17:42:12 · answer #9 · answered by D L 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Guys are sh*ts cus they have di*xs ...
He probably slept w/ her... then again... guys dont like to be told what to do...so stop tryin to be his mommie, or he might sleep w/ her just to prove you right!
2006-07-27 17:42:06 · answer #10 · answered by lilmizzerica 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋