i was talkin to this guy for about a month and after a month i slept with him. the next couple days i didn't really talk to him. i had been talkin to some of our mutual friends and they were goin on about how it was a ''hit it and quit it''. i got totally pissed and called him on it and he promised up and down that it wasn't true and that they were lyin. that was 2 weeks ago and i haven't seen or talked to him since. should i try and firgure out wut happened or just let it go?
2006-07-27 17:28:17 · 19 answers · asked by taylor21 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
You already figured out what happened.
2006-07-27 17:31:27 · answer #1 · answered by Catspaw 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Be strong.
Try to operate from a place of personal power.
Flip it over.... you did the hitting, and you did the quiting.
Dont try to figure it out. Let it go, hold your head high, and make like the guy never existed
2006-07-27 17:36:59 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Let it go, maybe you'll think harder the next time you want to sleep with a guy, and not do it until you're in a committed relationship with him. Best of luck to you.
2006-07-27 17:32:27 · answer #3 · answered by basketcase88 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
As a rule of thumb if they don't call back after 2 days wave it off.
2006-07-27 17:34:10 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
What did you expect him to say? Of course he's going to deny it. If he was really interested in you, he would have made more effort to keep in touch. Let it go and chalk it up to experience.
2006-07-27 17:32:37 · answer #5 · answered by Bethany 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
call him and confirm. make sure that its over and show careless irritance but not anger. but also be glad he didnt call bak because you didnt let it last longer and the have him ruin it and hurt you more. get bak on your feet and keep on goin. if thats how it is then move on.
2006-07-27 17:34:00 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
why didn't you talk to him for days after, it sounds like it was hit it and quit it for both of you, let it go and move on (intelligently)
2006-07-27 17:30:57 · answer #7 · answered by BigDaddy 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would just let it go, sometimes it will hurt but forgive and forget is the best thing to do.
2006-07-27 17:31:42 · answer #8 · answered by kznight1 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I figure that you may as well just let it go, because you probably aren't gonna be able to figure it out and you'll drive yourself nuts trying to figure it out!
2006-07-27 17:49:00 · answer #9 · answered by Maymie 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well if it was true why he no talk to you. I would try to figure out what happened, then let him go.
2006-07-27 17:34:46 · answer #10 · answered by tendertrex 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋