you was dating a guy who never caressed you unless it was in bed, never said he loved you from time to time unless you asked, never took you out unless you sugested it,never did like special things like bringing you a glass of soda or run your bath water like you do him, always stared at other women when you did go out, talk small talk like hows the weather,lied from time to time, never wanted to hold on a conversation about these problems when you brought them up, always doing his plans on the weekend, when he was ther he was acting like he was preoccupied, held back on making love tecniques, only tongued when you were in the middle of sex. would you stay with a guy like that? is there something wrong with him or is it me? should i just except he is not going to change? is he a hopeless case?
2006-07-27 17:17:48 · 9 answers · asked by eaglestraces123 4 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
if u are not happy, that is it. open and shut case on what kind of relationship NOT to have. what do u want? make ur boundaries.... do u want to be loved, cared for, taken care of, feel special? this guy sounds like he is just using u for sex!!! don't let anyone do that to you...no matter how much u think u love him!!! it's never going to change if u don't set boundaries, and let the guy know what you want in the relationship. remember this: men use love to get sex. women use sex to get love...!!! are u running his bath, taking care of his needs, giving him sex, cuz u want to win his love??!! NO. it does not work that way. in fact it's quite opposite..the only one who stays WITHOUT the sex and still treats you well is the one who loves u for more reasons than physical. i'm not saying sex is necessarily bad to have before marriage, it's a choice; but do u really want to give it up to someone who has not shown you respect? support? make u feel appreciated and loved? u deserve better. take care of ureslf, ur self esteem, ur appearance, ur respect for yourself. once u feel good about urself, u'll realize how awesome u are, and that u DESERVE MORE. u can get any guy..why settle?? find one who Deserves you, and who you deserve. who u want to take care of cuz u know he will take care of you. good luck, be strong. get rid of this user. don't ever let anyone make u feel useless.
2006-07-27 17:31:22 · answer #1 · answered by sasmallworld 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Nothing wrong with you something wrong with him, most likely he's never dated before so he doesnt know what to do that or he thinks your so love in with him you'll put up with his crap. Id give him one chance sit down tell him all that you mentioned above if changes keep if not let him go.
2006-07-28 00:22:11 · answer #2 · answered by sugrdady03 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
tell him to get a life and find someone that will treat you right
2006-07-28 00:28:39 · answer #3 · answered by matthew Overton 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Leave him immediatelly!!
He is such a LOSER and dont deserve to be loved
Sorry, does this happen to you?
2006-07-28 00:22:02 · answer #4 · answered by Curiosity 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It seems like you are unhappy w/ him. You decide whether he is good for you.
2006-07-28 00:22:18 · answer #5 · answered by pseudonym 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yeah he is what you call a hopeless case... Please dump him for your own sake!
2006-07-28 00:23:21 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
OUCH! Please don't tell me this is your situation....I wish you well....sounds difficult, I just cannot be the one to judge.
2006-07-28 06:16:57 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
dump him
2006-07-28 00:19:40 · answer #8 · answered by sparkletina 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if i was him, i would kill myself...
2006-07-28 00:27:06 · answer #9 · answered by Love69 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋