I think i am becoming Bisexual,i find myself thinking about sex more often and not only with guys but with girls too.I kno im onl 14 but i want too so bad.Trust me i kno not to do it without protection,i am smart.I just want to kno am i ready and is it ok to be bisexual?Please help,anyone that can.Oh yeh,if any1 wants to tell me wat is sex like,is it true that girls bleed their first time?
2006-07-27 17:16:35 · 11 answers · asked by Drea P =) 2 in Health ➔ Other - Health
You are 14. The biggest compliant I have ever heard among my friends is that they didn't wait. You are too young to have sex. Even though your body is capable of receiving sex, you are still not mature enough to handle it.
You will never be like, "man, I waited too long to have sex." No one has ever said that. But people usually say, "I should have waited to have sex."
Trust me, you won't die if you just wait for a while. Spend this time on your education, focus on developing into a woman. Who knows, you may find true love and be very, very glad you waited. And as for the Bi-curiosity, waiting will help that too.
2006-07-27 17:25:59 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
hi! i am a 19 yrs old guy and my cousin had similar feelings as u. anyway the first time will cause bleeding and hurt a little. id advice u to wait a little before having sex. but if ur gonna then try both men and women and figure out for urself. dont be scared kid its a lot of fun but protection is a must
2006-07-27 17:35:26 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
when i discovered i like girls and guys, i was 14 also, its okay. relax, it is normal. just take it one day at a time, advice dont hide it but dont flaw it out to everyone cause kids are crule and they will call you names. and guys will either flock to you or the oppisite, girls your age are discovering there curiosity with the same sex all over dont freak . oh and yes sex is painful the 1st few times, when you lose your virginity remember that you will NEVER hace it again, and always use protection, dont belive "iam clean" bullshit, cause men lie, or they just dont know. so take your sex life either way you want it but 14 is too young cause you got to make sure that you are physically up to it and mentally.
2006-07-27 17:28:27 · answer #3 · answered by kandecotd 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
remember this ...
theres no completely straight girl and no completely straight guy either.
you are only 14 and the whole world has everything to offer for you... just wait and relax, the next best thing will about to unfold.
don't be scared coz you feel that you are like this.... just be patient to know the real score when you get the right age. just enjoy your sexual preference as of this moment... good luck!
2006-07-27 17:26:09 · answer #4 · answered by aico g 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
first of all if you have to ask if girls bleed the first time that tells me right there that you are to young to make a big discission like being bisexual.... give your self time to grown and learn about life alittle before you make such a big choice,,sex is a natural part of life and is wonderful with the right person...my advice is WAIT!!!!
2006-07-27 17:34:37 · answer #5 · answered by tylertxchick 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I no what ur going through cuz i am in the same situation and i am 14 too but I think its fine to be Bi becus alot of peopl are .
2006-07-27 17:21:09 · answer #6 · answered by DinoDisaster 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
All kids, boys and girls go through the sexuality stage. It is not abnormal to have those feelings. You have to work through them.You are just a very sexual person. I went through the same and I am a guy, I am now a homophobe...lol.
2006-07-27 17:27:43 · answer #7 · answered by donnie0123 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hanmabookie rocks. Listen to him. Amanda, aico g, and kandekotd are seriously misled. Do NOT listen to them. Yes, it is normal to wonder about these things. No, it is not normal to act on them. We do NOT, as a civilized society, act on everything that comes into our heads. Have you ever wished someone was dead? Then later you felt bad about it? Of course you have, everyone has. That does NOT mean you should act on it! It is absolutely normal for you to wonder. A smart person does not do everything that pops into his/her head.
2006-07-27 17:57:09 · answer #8 · answered by motorcyclegrandmama 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes it is true girls bleed in their first time, because the hymen breaks, blood comes out. And that's it.
2006-07-27 17:19:57 · answer #9 · answered by Lil One! 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If i were you, i'll go with Hanmabookie's advise. He is so right
2006-07-27 17:31:20 · answer #10 · answered by Shyne_06 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋