You know she's like so much prettier n much hotter than you n she passed by you..are you gonna get jealous or compliment her in you heart..or what if you are also beautiful but when this hot girl appear everybody will be like sooo into her n say nice thing about her....What would you do....or say? Thanks you guys.
2006-07-27 17:14:49 · 24 answers · asked by Anonymous in Society & Culture ➔ Etiquette
don't say anything-we see not-so attractive people all the time, but do we make it apoint to tell them how ugly they are? so why would do it for the attractive ones? why would you be jealous though? i think someone else said this, but there's always gonna be someone more attractive than you. there's also those less attractive than you, but that's what make the world go 'round-VARIETY!
2006-08-03 12:43:20 · answer #1 · answered by baybeegrl5 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I really don't care. There's always going to be someone that looks better or more in shape then the next. I'm content in who I am. And if I'm gone feel bad about how I look then only I have the power to change it.
I'm not a lesbian; but if I see a fine chick, I will say it. I do it all the time. I acknowledge dudes too. If you look good, then you look good. I'm not gone hate. You are suppose to look yourbest for yourself not to get attention and not to get a man. Let, me tell you a secret. Men don't fall in love and stay with a chick just because she's pretty and in shape, for anything that will fade and they will figure out that they have nothing in common. But every dude has something that they look for in every girl to be wifey material. And guess what it sho aint in the looks. It will be something in the heart and mind. So, the next time you see another chick that looks good then congratulate her. Because it takes hard work to be beautiful if it aint natural. HA HA HA HA
2006-07-27 17:26:29 · answer #2 · answered by Ashlay D 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It depends. I can appreciate beauty, and I'm not so lacking in self-confidence that I can't appreciate the beauty of another woman. But if that person is actively trying to get compliments on her looks, I generally would say mean things about her in my head.
I would rarely say something to her, especially if I thought she was the type of person that was arrogant about her looks. If she was that type of person, I would probably keep my distance and try not to be in the same room with her if I didn't have to.
On the other hand, if I thought she was genuinely beautiful with a nice personality, then I might bring it up in conversations about her, though probably not directly to her.
2006-07-27 18:41:53 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
"God help you if you are an ugly girl,
Course too pretty is also your doom,
Cuz everyone harbors a secret hatred
For the prettiest girl in the room."
-Ani Difranco
True, huh? I appreciate beauty wherever I see it. I'm ok with how I look, so it isn't going to bother me. I might go ahead and tell her how nice she looks, since she might not get that a lot from other women. Course, all bets are off if she's a horrible person.
2006-07-27 20:02:09 · answer #4 · answered by kivrin9 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Personally, I think nothing of it. I'm all that AND a bag-o-chips and I know it!!! Really though, I'm not insecure enough to be jealous of other people - especially the way they look. It's what's inside that counts. Someone could be super gorgeous on the outside and pure evil on the inside. That's why I never judge a book by its cover.
2006-08-03 15:35:56 · answer #5 · answered by Samba Queen 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well ... I'm a guy so this may not count for much... but if, (as a girl,) I was faced with a situation like that, I'd probably get sooooo worked up and upset over it, being second-classed like that so easily, that it would very possibly effect me permanently.
I wouldn't do anything at all when it happened... I'd keep kool on the outside, of course, but I'd probably be dieing on the inside.
If it happened again... and again... like, wherever I went, so to speak... Oh my.! Then, I'd probably begin to find ways to make myself feel better... Like, I'd find some stupid group to join or I'd start to throw my support behind some silly "Save Dolphins" cause.
I know it's "Duh" but what else can I do if I'm a troll..???
MMM r u randy? MMM
2006-08-03 15:59:48 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I have no problem with complimenting someone when they have worked to create beauty. My favorite is to walk past the chubby older lady that took the time to put on the make-up and a pretty blouse and compliment her.
2006-08-03 01:33:52 · answer #7 · answered by Laura B 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
My goal would be try to figure out out to get her to become one of my friends. Then I can use her to my advantage. My very first strategy is to compliment her.
For example, a man I had a crush on for a couple of months had finally asked me out. We dated 3 times, and he was pressuring me into sex. I wanted to know if he was for real, so I set up the atmosphere that the three of us go to a nightclub. Once my friend was there, a man never laid his eyes on me until she dumped him that night.
I was heartbroken that he didn't care about me, but he have sex with me either. In the end, I won because I manage to borrow her to find out if he really was interested in me or not.
2006-07-27 21:15:55 · answer #8 · answered by SweetBrunette 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I saw the most beautiful girl at the airport a few months ago..
i was jealous.. who wouldn't get jealous ? but i could not stop looking at her.. and just admiring her
to what nyasasmom said..
i am not "juding" anything by what they look like.. i'm answering the question.. and wether nyasasmom likes it or not. 1st impressions come from your appearence.. how you carry yourself
EVeryone is beautiful .. but not everyone sees it
2006-07-27 17:19:02 · answer #9 · answered by nola_cajun 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
personally I don't have a low self esteem so I would probably compliment her on her outfit or maybe her jewelery. There will always be someone prettier even if you are hot
2006-08-03 13:14:37 · answer #10 · answered by Chrissy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋