I've always tolf my boyfriend that I would never dump him, and if we ever broke up, he would have to dump me. BIG MISTAKE. We haven't really talked in 7 days, when we usually talk every day. I am thinking about breaking up with him. I called him over and over 2-nite, wanting to talk. About the 8th time, he answered but was really annoyed. He said he wasn't mad, and couldn't talk. b4 haning up he even said i love you. Then an hour later he called our home phone wanting to talk to my bro who was asleep (who is his bff)....so he has time to talk to my bro, but not me. When he called, i answered. I apologized again 4 calling so much, and he just sounded really annoyed and siad it's ok....in "that voice", he said i love you though. I'm soooo confused!! I am mad @ him for kinda avoiding me, and hurting my feelings w/o realizing it, but I also don't wanna break his heart. If he was truely annoyed or bothered my me he wouldn't say i love you b4 hanging up. PLEASE! I NEED HELP SOOO BAD!!!!!!!!!
2006-07-27 17:13:20 · 8 answers · asked by ♥Lovliness♥ 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
We've been together for 2 months......we r very young (junior high) so there isn't much we can do together. It's been very hard on our relationship. We usually talk on the phone every day, but l8ly, he won't/"can't" talk. Thats all we have. If our phone coversations fade, then so do we.....
NICE ANSWERS ONLY PLEASE!
2006-07-27 17:15:13 · update #1
He's 13. I'm 12.
i'm not 40 or married. I just am really attached 2 this guy. Like, every time I see his name on caller ID, I feel like the world is great & i have nothing to worry about. I just don't wanna guy who takes advantage of me.....I think he thinks, that I'll NEVER EVER DUMP HIM UNDER ANY CIRCUMSTANCES.
i really don't wanna break his heart.
2006-07-27 17:20:22 · update #2
In the past I've been COMPLETELY ♥OBSESSED♥ over this guy.
2006-07-27 17:28:30 · update #3
It will hurt me very badly if I loose him.
2006-07-27 17:30:26 · update #4
Tell him how you feel (if you get a chance). It sounds like he's trying to avoid you, which means he may not want to be with you. If you feel this way...then break up. It's not fair for him to drag you along if he's not interested. 2 months is a long time for someone of your age to be "going out". Cut it off.. move on... meet new people!
2006-07-27 17:19:48 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If I could go back in time and play my life over during those times I would just break up with him. Don't even tell him just start ignoring him. Act like he is nobody to you. Which he is.....Right! Believe me this isn't going to be the last time that this happens to you. Just bite your lip and walk the other way. Become a 'B'. If only I was the person I am now. But then your past is what shapes you.
2006-07-28 00:27:05 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well first I'm going to say that speaking to someone everyday gets to a point where there isn't anything left to say. Now there are two things that this could possibly be.
Scenario one - he needs space and doesn't know how to tell you this. So he's avoiding you to get to a point where he has something to say to you. So he tells you he loves you and rushes you off the phone.
Scenario two - he's avoiding you and rushing you off the phone because he wants to break up with you and doesn't know how to tell you. He's afraid that it will affect his friendship with your brother, so he's trying to test the waters with him first and probably get some advice from him.
My suggestion, whichever scenario it turns out to be - find a hobby. You're sitting at home waiting on him to call, go out and live your life. At least when (and if) he calls you'll have something new to talk about. If he doesn't call, at least you're not sitting at home by the phone waiting on him.
2006-07-28 00:24:22 · answer #3 · answered by tinydancer42001 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if you are not getting the attention you want out of him consistently by all means BREAK UP! What are you 13? Stop acting like you are 40 and married.
2006-07-28 00:17:44 · answer #4 · answered by BigDaddy 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you got to move on and experience new things believe me im 15 and in highschool i had the same thing go on that ur going through and i just moved on and it turned out great because things change as it goes and i met a wonderfull girl
2006-07-28 00:23:07 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
geez. tlk to him and b like dude wtf is ur problem. are u mad at me? did i do n e thing? u cant just get mad at him and him not no. its stupd. even tho im mad at my bgf. well n e whoo. im not one of those ppl who are gunna say "oh honey u r way to young for a bf." bc i just came from middle school. but seriously ask him. ask if u did n e thing that would annoy him. mayb hes going tro a "time" if u no wat i meen. "tha change" iduno much luck tho.
2006-07-28 00:20:34 · answer #6 · answered by kole 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Could be he has something else going on that is keeping him occupied --Just wait and don't be pushy.
2006-07-28 00:18:30 · answer #7 · answered by ole_lady_93 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well , I wouldn't break up with him just yet ..... tell him how you fell and just be honest just ask him he is having a problem with you or something ....... but try too make it work
2006-07-28 00:20:45 · answer #8 · answered by Melanie<3 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋