I am in my Senior year of high school and so is she. I love her to death and I know that one day I want to marry her. Although the college I am going to go to is in Arizona and her's is in Texas, the state I live in. We love each other and everything, but I am afraid that if I go off to a different college that's not near her then I will lose her and I don't want to lose her at all. I know that it will be a new start for both of us in the real world but I don't want to lose her due to college. I want to go to the college in Arizona, but also I want to keep her close to me. She doesn't want to move to Arizona because she hates that state. I don't want to move away to where I can't see her. We both don't do well with long distance relationships and I don't want it to be long distance. Is there anything or anyone that can help me figure how to go to the college I want but still be able to be with my girlfriend.
Oh, she doens't want me to do college online because she thinks that I should
2006-07-27 16:33:13 · 5 answers · asked by Tom P 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Oh, she doens't want me to do college online because she thinks that I should experience the college life. I know she just want's whats best for me and everything but she is the most wonderful person I have ever met and I don't want to lose her.
2006-07-27 16:33:49 · update #1
If it was meant to be it will maintain.
If it was not, it will fall away.
You are still very young and have not experienced all of what life has to offer..in college you will be living apart, but you will be living - learning and growing. You cannot expect to grow to the person you could be by not going to college and using the talents and strengths you have. Neither can you hold her back. Each needs to become the flower not stop at the point of a seed in the ground. Then, once you have become this fulfilled person, examine each other for mututal life dreams and potential again. You will last as a couple when you both come to marriage at a point in your life you can support a life together, support a family together and be the talented respected person from the college education you will have.
2006-07-27 16:42:47 · answer #1 · answered by Kerry Z 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If it is true love then there should be no reason for you to be afraid of losing her. Long distance realtionships are tough but you have to think about your future and hers. Do you trust her 100%? If so then there should be no problems. Just focus on your schooling so you can come back to her a well educated man that she can be proud of.
2006-07-27 16:40:41 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
go to college as planned
spend long weekends together
college classes should keep you busy
study hard during the week
then you will have time for long weekends
even if she was at the same school that is no guarantee that the two of you would have time to be together every day
2006-07-27 16:39:33 · answer #3 · answered by Library Eyes 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
get her pregnant. Just kidding. It sounds like you two just might have to move on. She should love you more than she hates the state of Arizona. If its possible for her to go to Arizona then she should. If not then you should move on. Good Luck
2006-07-27 16:41:58 · answer #4 · answered by lavendergrl 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you totally need to go to the college you had choosed. if she really loves you to death like you do, shell wait, if she doesnt, she had never really loved you. and maybe its to early to think about marriage....the 2 of you need to try being some time apart while your in college, if things worked out youd need to trust her and so her, but if don't maybe your not meant to be together.
2006-07-27 16:43:36 · answer #5 · answered by mrs. cookie 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋