She make fun of my "back acne" and bounces items off my tummy fat, what should I do. Ive tried fighting and talking with her and nothing seems to work! I really makes me sad, and eat and want to purge around her.... Im a size "9" and shes a "0" she makes faces when I say my size saying, ' oh thats okayyyyyyy ' or ' its just your huge hips'
2006-07-27 16:27:24 · 17 answers · asked by updownturnaround 2 in Health ➔ Other - Health
this girl has major insecrutiy isuses
she feels that if you feel bad around her it will boost her up
she is probably jealous becuase you have an amazing personality and so needs to constantly throw her skinny body in your face
first of all size 9 is perfectly okay. and you should never do something like purge becuase do you want to be as insecure as her?
next time she does something be like " I know you are just kidding but it really hurts me when you do something like that and maybe that is my insecurity but as a friend you need to respect it and stop "
if she doens't or gets worse and really makes you feel bad abotu yourself then she is being emotionally abusive and you need to get new friends that don't try to make you feel terrible about yourself
2006-07-27 16:28:59 · answer #1 · answered by hanntastic 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
First off having "back acne" is not a big deal; most people do have it a little bit. Being a size 9 is smaller than the average female, living in America (if you're American, that should make you feel better). I am willing to bet that by medical standards you are of healthy weight for your height. If she is a size 0, she is probably very underweight and emaciated even. She may have anorexia and is very insecure in her own self, which causes her to put you down, because people with low self esteem get a kick out of putting others down so that they can build themselves up. I would talk to her and tell her that you do not find it funny at all anymore. Say something like, "Okay, it was funny at first, but now the joke is getting old and I do not appreciate you making fun of me." If she is "real friend" she will back off and quit with the "jokes". If she doesn't stop, then it might be time to look for nicer friends.
2006-07-28 00:26:03 · answer #2 · answered by Dorothy K. 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Okay, there is nothing wrong with being a size 9 -- I WISH I was a size 9. Tell your friend and her skinny butt to take a hike (which I realize is not the easiest thing to do, but you will be better off in the long run).
2006-07-27 23:31:27 · answer #3 · answered by Kristin 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ok, a size 9 is small! Dump your friend and get some new ones who love you and appreciate you, no matter what your size. This girl is NOT a friend. She is insecure and makes you feel bad to make herself feel better. Get rid of her!
If you really really like her and dont want to end your friendship, tell her how you feel when she gives you a hard time. Dont do it when she is being mean to you. Tell her when you both are calm. Ask her to not make you feel bad about yourself and tell her that you like the way you are. If she really cares about you, she will realize that she is hurting you and will stop.
2006-07-27 23:33:16 · answer #4 · answered by Starry 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
first of all a size 9 is NOT fat. and a size 0 is way too skinny.you should kick her to the curb. and find a friend that wont fall over if you blew on her..
2006-07-27 23:32:57 · answer #5 · answered by christine 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
look..a size 9 is a great size! a size zero is unhealthy and looks anorexic.....my best friend of 22 years is a size 1 and I'm a 9...i kinda know what you mean about small sizes...but as for your friend..she's not one!! if you have tried to talk to her and she's still mean and insensitive..kick her to the curb..nobody needs friends like that...nobody!
2006-07-27 23:35:19 · answer #6 · answered by ♥ Callie ♥ 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like you have a friend who really enjoys pointing out your so-called "fflaws" to bask in the joy that she is supposedly "better" than you.
I would tell her this next time she does it.
Say something like, "Hey, does pointing out my flaws make your feel better about yourself?"
If she does it again later, then get rid of her. I hope you have the self-esteem to realize that you are better off without her.
2006-07-27 23:33:21 · answer #7 · answered by Chasemice 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just tell her to go flush her little skinny a## down the toilet if she won't quit being so rude. However, she seems like a person that is really no friend at all......
2006-07-27 23:34:56 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
yer friends a *****. sorry but she might be so insecure about her own weight that she takes it out on a friend. you sound perfectly normal anyway so dont even think about it. i get acne too & it just means were maturing faster than yer friend who could use a little growing up to do.
2006-07-27 23:37:19 · answer #9 · answered by wonderwoman 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like this is a friend you could do without. You should hang with people who have positive attitudes.
2006-07-27 23:30:03 · answer #10 · answered by Diane D 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋