I keep asking my mom if I can have a puppy But she keeps saying NO, how do I make her say yes?

Question

I really need and want a puppy.

(i have hermit crabs0

Answer 1

%%%First of all check out three books from the library about dogs and dog training. When talking with your mom, just bring up casually something that you just learned from the books.

%%%Ask her if you can volunteer at your local shelter to help dogs, and learn more. (most shelters have a petting room, or a dog walking program, and need volunteers to just give animals attention)

%%%Study the books about choosing the right breed for your family, and comment on this often to her.

%%%Ask if you can give a dog from the shelter foster care for a week to see how a dogs fits in your family

%%%Do ALL chores as soon as asked

%%% Keep your room clean, and show that you are growing up and accepting responsibility.

but you need to remember that dogs live to be 12-16 years old, and you can't know where you will be by that time.

.Dogs don't stay puppies very long, and taking care of an old dog is expensive and time consuming...so who will be there for the dog?? Most likely the duty will be left for your mom.
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also, during the weeks of potty training, it is Mom's furniture and flooring that will be ruined..and her table legs that will be chewed..
It will never work if she doesn't want the dog in the first place...

If you can do all of the above, and let your mom know how much you understand all of the problems that come with a dog, she may be willing to consent....but, you really do need to consider her feelings and wishes.

Answer 2

* Research: Find out what dog you want. Does it shed? What does it eat? How big does it get? Is it friendly? Does it bark often? Find out what your parents would WANT in a dog. Find one that you like to.

* Discuss what you would do FOR the dog. Would you take him outside to go to the bathroom whenever he/she needed to go? Would you feed and water him? Would you give him baths? Honestly say what you think you can do. If your parents want you to do more for the dog, consider.

* Ask what is wrong with getting a puppy. Maybe you're moving in a month and don't want a new puppy going through the move.

* If your parents don't want to buy a puppy just because of how much it costs, you could:
- Offer to pay for the dog with your own money
- Get one from a humane society (those are a little less expensive than fancy places that sell purebreds)

* Show that you are responsible. Work a little extra around the house. Do chores immediately when asked. Make your bed a little neater in morning. Doing THOSE things will show that you have enough responsibility to care for your own puppy!

Good luck with everything. Just try not to bother your parents TOO much...although it's really hard...

GOOD LUCK!!!!! :-)

Answer 3

Not to sound like well, your mom, but she probably has a few good reasons why you can't have a puppy. A few things come to mind...

1) Puppies require LOTS of attention around the clock.
2) Puppies don't go to the litter box when they need to go, they poop on your mom's new rug.
3) Puppies are expensive, even if they are free. Food, vet expenses, destroyed personal belongings... the list goes on.
4) Puppies whine all night long and then your mom is cranky the next day because she couldn't sleep.
5) You don't *need* a puppy.

Answer 4

How old are you?
Why would you say you NEED a puppy?
I can see WANT, but explain NEED.

Show her that you are mature, that you can and will take care of something properly, without complaining, without going off and forgetting about it when the new wears off, feeding it before you eat yourself, cleaning up after and behind it, NEVER COMPLAIN or you can hang it up.

But start out with a goldfish or something, don't just jump right in with a dog!

Answer 5

Sometimes we can't have everything we want. Are you able to pay for a puppy.... they're expensive. And that's just the beginning. You have to then buy food, toys, a dog license, collars, leashes and a dog crate. You have to take it to a vet for all sorts of shots, flea and heartworm preventives. There are also grooming expenses to consider, and training classes.

So, if you yourself are able to afford this, and then come home every day right after school to walk it... play with it, train it, brush and comb it, then you need to convice your parents that you are mature enough to care for a pet.

Answer 6

It depends on the situation. Maybe she thinks you're not mature enough, maybe the thrill of having a puppy will ware off once the pup is grown. Try to act more responsible and show that you are too. Maybe then your mom will change her mind. Also, don't forget to do your research before getting a puppy.. once you're allowed to. good luck!

Answer 7

Maybe ask to start with a smaller animal--a guinea pig or something. She will be able to see how well you take care of it, whether you keep it clean and make sure if always has food and water etc.

If you can show you are responsible, maybe she will be more willing to let you get a puppy.

Answer 8

my mom always says no, but when we bring home a puppy, she never says take it back - and means it.

do the same. but make sure you can return the puppy if she does say take it back.

Answer 9

well my cousin wanted a puppy and she had to show her parents that she was responsible enough to handle one. and also if she still says no then if you have any friends that have dogs or other pets you should ask to help take care of them. bye! (my real name is Kristine Chen)

Answer 10

When I was a girl we had horses even though I could ride most of the horses I wanted my very own horse. My father told me I would have to wait until I grew up to get my own so I am going to tell you the same thing---you are going to have to wait until you grow up to get one.