boyfriend issues?

Question

well... my boyfriend claim's himself to be an ****** because he does stupid stuff alot...and i forgive him because i love him so much but im not sure how to help him out... he tries so hard... any advice on how to help him?

Answer 1

Well the first thing I can say is you can not change him if he doesn't want to change. There is only so much you can do to help and your help is not any good if he honestly doesn't want it. He's got to do it on is own for the most part. The best thing I can think of right now is just ask him what you can do to help and go from there. That away you know exactly what areas he wants help in. If I think of something else before the question is close I will repost.

Answer 2

It's an excuse. He knows what he's doing and why. I've been in that situation and the guy continues to make excuses. Tell him to cut it out or you're gone and mean it when you say it. It's no such thing as stupid decisions. One is stupid... more than one stupid decision is just him doing what he wants and knowing you'll take his crap.

Get stern and let him know. Help him by getting yourself a backbone. Unless the guy is truly mentally challenged, he's just working you and loving it all the way. The more of it you take, the more he's going to give.

Answer 3

well i can relate i have the same problem with my boyfriend all i can say is try to talk about it and tell him how this is effecting your realtionship and how you dont want to lose him or yor realtionship.i suggest you 2 do something romantic take him back to were you first met.and start over that way you guys can start fresh.that way it gives him a chance to make things right. p.s i hope everything works out great

Answer 4

let himbe he will turn around on hir own.my brother turned all by himself.good luck.

Answer 5

give me his name and where I can find him, problem over