i had the biggest crush of my life past 6 weeks. i sat next to her during precal class in ucla summer school and ive got to know her for 6 weeks now. i became her friend and she thinks iam very funny. we love to laugh and smile. we text each other often and sometimes call each other to say hi. i wont see her again because the summer school is over and i have to go to camp for a week. before i leave, should i call her and tell her how i really feel about her? can u give me some suggestions how to tell her how i feel about her and i dont know how to bring this up on the phone. thanks hurrY!
2006-07-27 16:17:43 · 5 answers · asked by brian 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
okay i called her last night and i basically pussied out. like the timing wasnt there, i dont know what i should do. i made some excuse that i had to go help my sis at 12 at night and i really messed up. should i just go for it again and tell her that i like her?
2006-07-28 12:07:07 · update #1
Tell her....maybe she won't be ready to take it further right now, but at least she will know the truth.
And think about how you would feel if for the "rest of your life" you wondered "what would have happened" if you DIDN'T tell her.
The truth is always the best choice in the end. And it sounds like even if she isn't interesting in you right now for some reason, you are two very compatible people....and that will stick in her mind until she is ready to be more than "just friends."
As far as the phone...I would opt to talk to her about this in person. BUT IF YOU MUST DO IT ON THE PHONE....just wait for a moment when you two are laughing / joking about something (so the mood is "upbeat") and say something like, "You know, I really enjoy talking to you like this...I'm going to miss our conversations. Maybe we can keep in touch, or go out sometime soon."
Good luck....I think you'll do fine by telling her your feelings..
2006-07-27 16:30:16 · answer #1 · answered by thebee74 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You never know if you will get this opportunity again. So i say go for it.
What is the worse that can happen? Her telling you that she feels different from how you feel about her? You never know if she could be "the one" until you test the waters. And hey, she may even feel the same way about you :-)
It is always better to get something off of your chest and you telling this girl how you feel about her can grow into something big.
Ask yourself this: What if you dont tell her how you feel and you never get this opportunity again, then later on you find out that she felt the same way about you?
If you decide to tell her how you feel, you do not have to be blunt about it just tell her the truth. Tell her that you feel a connection between the 2 of you and you are really trying to get to know her a little better. Also, bring up how both of yall personalities compliment each other.
Whatever you decide to do, i wish you luck!
2006-07-27 16:27:06 · answer #2 · answered by Truth Be Told 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well, what kind of a person is she? you have to keep that in mind coz some women like it fast but some like to do it in an old-fashioned way like getting to know each other first. 6 weeks is a short time. after the summer's over and you still like her, then go for it. but until then, give yourselves time to think about it.
2006-07-27 16:22:55 · answer #3 · answered by AJ BA 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you call that betty up right now and let her know whats going on, better to be let down now than to spend the rest of your life wondering what might have been. hurry
2006-07-27 16:22:08 · answer #4 · answered by imnotbtami 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2006-07-27 16:26:23 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋