remember the times when we were kids and we liked the other kid and it gives us this adrenaline rush...we get shy and all..dont you think thats more of a true love then what we have when we grow up..its more physical more materialistic more lust....
what we ahve when we grow up should be called puppy love ..cuz we love one then another ..hump this then that..
and true love is more of the innocent kind when we were younger
what ya'll think?
2006-07-27 16:12:32 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I think true love is when you love the other person for them. I think it is really cute how we "love" as young kids but do not really know why we do, we probably "like" them for their looks. As we get older and more mature, some guys learn to hit it and others know how to hit it but aren't there to mess around. I think it is harder to find true love as you get older. When we are young, we are too young to love. But as we get older we run into situations where people use each other for money, pleasure, school, etc. However, I think people are most mature when they are at the age that they are thinking of settling down. Right then they are serious about relationships and to me, it seems more true.
You start to like the person for them rather for what they have. I look at this guy that I used to like. He is really cute but that is all he has is the face. I look at this other guy, he can't dress well but he has a good personality. It's not that he doesn't have style that he can't dress. You have to understand that there are guys that can't dress because they have no style and there are guys who can't dress because they don't have the money to afford the things. That's true love right there, it is when you love someone for who they are and not what they have. Later on, who knows what would happen to their face, as we get older, we change, our clothes, face, styles-they all change. What you where today, what your hair looks like today, the things you wore, 30 years from now it won't matter. What will matter is how you treated someone and what you learned. People remember "oh yeah..that girl she used to make me laugh all the time.." or "wow..look at her right now..she got a doctorate degree..I knew she would make it.." So overall, I would have to say that it depends on who you meet. I'm not so much into the face no more...one too many conceited guys, one too many guys that are just all about hitting it with a girl.
2006-07-27 16:22:11 · answer #1 · answered by vietlitogrl 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think thats a pretty good way of puting that into perspective, but think of all the "loves" you had from that little kid innocent, oh so adorable love, to the real true, romantic, forever type of love. those relationships youve had, we all have had molded us into the people we are today (relationship wise). if it were possable to love someone in the same way now like when we were kids i think that would be completely perfect. i still think, personally, i will feel like that again when i find that "one special person"
2006-07-27 23:21:21 · answer #2 · answered by tribalfan 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes, now that I think of it that way. When you are young it is so innocent and you like the person because they make you laugh or because they sneak a look at you during class or something, but now when we are older it's all in the looks and just getting laid.
2006-07-27 23:20:53 · answer #3 · answered by Carrie! 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
wow that's deep I never thought of it like that
2006-07-27 23:15:52 · answer #4 · answered by Michael 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋