Fellas, I need your help understanding my ex's intentions...?

Question

I haven't been with my ex for a year, and the only reason we talk is because we have a little girl together. Lately, he's been trying to find ways to try and get me jealous, by saying things like he has a hot date and he wants me to meet his girl ( he doesn't have one though) and about 2 weeks ago I made the mistake of sleeping with him. After we finished, he told me that it didn't mean anything to him, he also told that he had slept with this girl I realy don't like. I told him to leave and that I never wanted to speak with him again, he then called me about an hour later and told me that he made it up. Then about three days later, a mutual friend of ours came over and told me that my ex told him if he talked to me he would put 5 bullets in him and put him in a coffin, my friend also told me that about a month ago my ex confessed to him that he still loved me. What is the deal with my ex? Please Help

Answer 1

What you didn't really say here is if you do or don't still love him.

He sounds conflicted, and it also sounds like his male ego is not letting him admit that he still wants you in his life. The only thing is that it looks like he wants you on HIS terms and is not really considering your feelings.

As far as what is the deal....I think deep down you already know. You need to get your own head in the right place and ask yourself what it is that you want.

Last but not least, there is a child involved, and she deserves to be brought up in a peaceful, loving home.

Good luck.

Answer 2

Why did you guys split up? Your ex is an ex for a reason. He seems to be mixed up, not being able to say what he means and makes up stories which obviously hurt you. This is not love. This is immaturity. Can you put the finger on what is attracting you to him and why you are seeking to know what are his intentions?
I understand you have a child together but this is no excuse to stay together. Your little girl will be better off seeing her Mom getting treated like a Queen, like all women should be treated.. nothing like what this guy is doing to you now. What if a friend tells you this story - what would you suggest your friend to do?
Think about you and your daughter in all this. That should help. Good luck.

Answer 3

well it is obvious that this man has issues... I would not be talking to him at all have ur number changed and go threw the courts if you have to for supervised visitations with him and your daughter. and don't make the mistake again of sleeping with him stay away from him. he sounds like he needs help. good luck

Answer 4

Manipulation. Confess to one lie and continue the others. A characteristic of a truly evil person. Be careful.

Answer 5

ok, you made a mistake and slept with him again,..do yourself a favor and dont make that mistake again.
I dont really have a new suggestion 4 u, u have already been told by some smart ppl on here,...he's a nut, get a restraining order!!

Answer 6

Okay you're ex sounds a bit whack...okay not a bit but alot. I suggest you get a restraining order or something and so does your friend before something dangerous happens.

Answer 7

Be patient with him. He might grow up up some day. He just a sex tool before he grew a brain, that's all. Don't confuse him with complicated issues. Bye Bye should suffice.

Answer 8

Immature A$$ Wipe. He sounds like a whiny immature little *****. Find a new man.

Answer 9

Damn, youve got some drama..you should never have gotten pregnant from him the first place now all you gotta do is move away from this sad fella

Answer 10

Talk to him..Have an honest conversation with him....Hang out, get him to drink a little and ask him the question...Good Luck