I have been seeing this guy for ever a month, talked to him online for a month before that. He was a real sweetheart at first, and we really connected immediately, now he seems to be letting his true self show by picking at me and ignoring me alot of times, even when we are online, and will suddenly have to get offline. I know he talks to several other women online and even admitted to "talking dirty" to one. We said "I love you" a week after we met in person, and now he will not say it anymore. He has started picking fights with me, and even says things he things will upset me. His behavior has gotten really childish. I asked him if I did anything to make him upset and he says no. Can someone tell me what is going on? I have tried to ask him and he says "whatever". I can usually figure men out, but this one has me really puzzled. Thank you very much.
2006-07-27 15:54:48 · 13 answers · asked by Stephanie S 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
been thru the same thing recently he has lost interest so do the same he isnt worth the time or effort you are puttin into this supposable relationship so let him go 9 times out of 10 he has a new interest and is just keepin you dangaling incase she doesnt turn out to be worth it....But hun honestly let him go no man is worth this much confusion tell him you dont think this is working and you need time apart if he is interested he will start messeging you and tryin to contact you.. But you will find someone worth your time and love....Good Luck
2006-07-27 16:06:16 · answer #1 · answered by shell b 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sorry to say this but it sounds like he isnt intrested in you anymore! Sometimes words can mean a lot but when you see that person, it just changes things. He doesnt want to disapoint you by saying Yes if you did upset him! He didnt want to make you feel bad! but a nice guy should not act like this! Maybe you should forget about him and find someone new! Im sure there are plenty of guys who is better than him!! He isnt the only one left in this world!
Dont give up and keep trying! need some more sugestions! Im here on Yahoo Answers
2006-07-27 23:00:20 · answer #2 · answered by vaiosoft 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why do we constantly allow guys to depict the way we feel or behave.
I'm sure most of us feel that we are independent self-reliant women yet when a guy doesn't call, we feel like ****. Suddenly we are no longer confident. Does he not like me anymore? Like wat the ****. I need to get off that hook. I need to think that i can move on. I know i can but i need time. After that i want no more emotional attachments cos they eventually hurt u. But i know no matter how much u tell urself to keep things simple..it becomes complicated.
Sch is ******* stressful with mid-terms on their way and project deadlines approaching like a looming dark cloud. Life has never been this stressful and boring. It's a routine. Sch-project meeting-home. But i dun think i can handle any distraction. It'll be too hectic. But my darlings..u can come and disturb me anytime. I appreciate the asking of my well being and concern from u people. It really helps.
I just want to make sure i never fall into the trap again. No matter how shitty or boring life can be..it's still better than having ur heart heaved out of ur body and being trampled on.
When i see someone in love, i feel like yanking their heads out and filling it with hate. I wonder what's so especially abt love that one actually forgets his own identity? I'm not toking without experience..Infact i can say with much certainty that I hate the feeling of being in love..It makes u weak, vulnerable, clingy, wide-eyed, dreamy and so many other words i can come out with that associate back to being a loser.. Where's the strong, up-town, sophisticated, I-Know-i can -make-it on-my-own woman? I'm really a huge feminist.. which is why i dun give a **** abt what a guy has to offer me cos it's never enough and also i can get watever i want myself!
2006-07-27 23:01:56 · answer #3 · answered by Princess illusion 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There are at least 2 possible things that caused his behavior. First, you may have done something wrong but we guys lyk you don't talk about it and will let you find it out for yourself. Try to know when he's pleased or in good mood then ask him about it. Second, which is, sad to say is the like one, he doesn't love/like you anymore, if he ever loved you at all. But before you do anything else, try to talk to him, looking concerned or humble. guys like when your trying to please or 'court' them.
These is what you should put in your: In a relationship, the first one to fall in love is the loser.
2006-07-27 23:09:32 · answer #4 · answered by Shayne 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Girl, take it from a woman who knows: this guy is bad news.
Run--dont walk--away from this guy..A man always shows his true colors eventually. This guy is emotionally abusive, and his behavior will get worse, not better. If you continue with this guy, you are partially to be blame when he really hurts you. Cut this guy completely off--change your email, cell phone number--everything. He will try to contact you and be all nice when you cut him off-but RUN! And stop meeting guys online!!!
2006-07-27 23:00:32 · answer #5 · answered by Plus-Sized &Proud 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I will be really honest with you sweetie..He does not like you anymore. He might have "thought" he would like you at first but now changed his mind. Guys are immature like that so Im terribly sorry to say to you. Find another guy its just a numbers game sweetie.
2006-07-27 22:58:54 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
He is what is called an emotional manipulator. They control the relationship by playing your emotions always keeping you unsure and off balance.
Please run, do not walk, but run away from this situation. It will cause you nothing but turmoil and grief.
2006-07-27 22:59:52 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
he's a total jerk to treat u like that..
problem is,just try to dont trust ppl of whom u have littl knowledge of..it'll keep u away from trouble like this..
is man really that predictable..
2006-07-27 23:10:28 · answer #8 · answered by alexgnot 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He is an A$$ and isn't worth your time. I wouldn't talk to him anymore if I were you.
2006-07-27 22:59:04 · answer #9 · answered by Shorty 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well if he puts you thrugh that kind of stuff then i probably would NOT want to be around him that much!!!
Get out of there and move on!!!
good luck :)
2006-07-27 22:59:50 · answer #10 · answered by ~bubbles~ 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋