treat men like **** especially ones that treat them with all the respect they deserve. then they turn around and cheat on you and get lazy and talk sh** about you. this hasnt only happened to me once this is an ongoing thing. am i pickin the wrong ones.
2006-07-27 15:54:15 · 14 answers · asked by ksneon66 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Sounds like you and i have the same problems but mine are with guys. Not all girls are like that, just keep looking, you'll find one that will love you and treat you with the respect you deserve or she's just not good enough for you and should get back what she dishes out and from the sound of it that's not something you would do. Good Luck hun!!!
2006-07-27 16:03:33 · answer #1 · answered by Baby_love4482 3 · 25⤊ 5⤋
hey ur the not the only one..u maybe keep falling for the same type so thats why they repeat the same cycle. Its pretty undeniable that girls treats nice man like crap. Give them an adrenaline rush ...the bad boy thing...then you see the appericiate you better, But do it to the girl who deserves it not to every coz u might lose a good one. good luck...remember people always take advantage of nice ppl.
2006-07-27 23:01:24 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
In SOME cases the guys that treat their woman like gold,like their queen, ends up getting hurt at the end. SOME women in these cases like to take advantage of a "good man"-- treat their man like garbage. They take them for granted, cheat, disrespect them, and everything else. In my opinion the reason why these kind of girls treat their "good man" like s**t is because they know they already have want they want, in terms of a boyfriend.
And then you have those girls that has a man who treats her like s**t, but she treat him like royalty, her king. Why? Because the woman knows she has to work harder in keeping this man.
This is not with ALL men and this is not with ALL women, only some.
2006-07-27 23:17:02 · answer #3 · answered by Truth Be Told 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm sorry to hear your case. Well, really need to choose a good girls, and made this as a hard lesson in your life. I am thinking that as a guy I won't choose because she is pretty or sexy. A good family background could be an asset for selection.
2006-07-27 23:02:14 · answer #4 · answered by teddybear1268 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are responsible for setting boundaries so other people can't hurt you. If you dump all your friends and have your life revolve around someone you're dating, you're doomed and you have nothing to fall back on. Read Boundaries by Henry Cloud. You can't change other people. You can only limit how much you expose yourself to those toxic people. If you're needy, you tolerate abuse, hoping for the occasional breadcrumb. While you're dating a loser, you're out of the market for someone better.
2006-07-27 22:59:12 · answer #5 · answered by Tony T 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
what girls are you talking about?!?! most of the time it's guys being the @$$holes to girls. i know not all girls are sweethearts and i know not all guys are *******...but for the most part that's how it goes. so there is no real answer to why some girls treat men like sh*t. it could be because that's how they were treated by guys. it all depends on who you talk to.
2006-07-27 23:04:00 · answer #6 · answered by PixiFairy 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Odd. I usually expect posts like these only the other way around...
Perhaps you're being too nice, spoiling these women. They probably learned that they could get whatever they wanted as long as you keep doing what they told you to do.
2006-07-27 23:02:18 · answer #7 · answered by Lexy 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
some girls treat ther b/f like **** because of how there ex's have treated them. maybe that is way. stop treating the girls you date so nice until they really deserve it.
2006-07-27 23:06:17 · answer #8 · answered by Carol B 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes. I never have done any of that crap to my x-bois and never will do any of that crap to my future men. girls who do that **** are just ****** up and dont know how to treat a guy right probably because they cant treat themselves right
2006-07-28 00:45:57 · answer #9 · answered by side_ways_sittin 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe you are treating her too nice. Or maybe she thinks she can get away with bein unfaithful.
2006-07-27 22:58:17 · answer #10 · answered by MzChamillinator 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋