I ALWAYS With My Gurl And Never With My Boyz. They Always Wanna Chill With Me But My Gurl Tells Me No. Who Sould I Pick And/Or What Should I Do?
2006-07-27 15:52:22 · 7 answers · asked by Ty Doyal 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
If your gf doesn't respect the fact that you have a life besides her, maybe she's not the girl for you. I mean I would understand if you ALWAYS spent your time with your friends and she'd get mad, but it's the other way around. I suggest you either talk this out with her or might as well forget your friends, because if you don't listen to them, they're going to forget you. Your gf shouldn't make you pick between your friends and her and if she does, she's not a good gf. Time should be spent fairly with both. I had a friend whose gf made him pick between her and his friends. Well he picked his gf and his friends left him and then she left him for some other guy. He ended up high and dry, don't let that happen to you. Rememeber, they always say "Bf's/Gf's come and go but friends are forever." Think about it.
2006-07-27 16:00:18 · answer #1 · answered by Curious_Camo_Jess 5 · 9⤊ 0⤋
When i see someone in love, i feel like yanking their heads out and filling it with hate. I wonder what's so especially abt love that one actually forgets his own identity? I'm not toking without experience..Infact i can say with much certainty that I hate the feeling of being in love..It makes u weak, vulnerable, clingy, wide-eyed, dreamy and so many other words i can come out with that associate back to being a loser.. Where's the strong, up-town, sophisticated, I-Know-i can -make-it on-my-own woman? I'm really a huge feminist.. which is why i dun give a **** abt what a guy has to offer me cos it's never enough and also i can get watever i want myself!
2006-07-27 22:54:41 · answer #2 · answered by Princess illusion 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
as a couple you both need your own time outside of each other TRUST ME I been married for 2 years and have a little girl and I still go out and do me and my hubby hangs with his boys... not every night but once a week or at least a couple times a month.... its considered control if you wanna go out with ur boys and she hollerin no.... how would she like it if you did that? ask her that.... explain that you care about her but you dont want either of you to feel soficated.... agree that on a certain night you would like to do this and ask her what night she wants to go out with her girls... communication and trust are the keys to a healthy relationship
2006-07-27 22:57:46 · answer #3 · answered by Jenna 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Find out what your girl has against your friends. Talk to her and explain that you need friends. My boyfriend always drinks when he gets around his friends and I am a Christian so thats a real problem for me. So when he goes out with his friends, I always have to just trust that he isn't drinking. Maybe thats what your girl needs to do is TRUST YOU!
2006-07-27 22:58:23 · answer #4 · answered by Dana J 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hang out with who u want , dont let either of them control u. There is also a dumb saying ive heard "bros b4 hoes" u do what u wanna do
2006-07-27 22:57:10 · answer #5 · answered by goldieluxxx 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It shouldn't be one or the other. You should be able to enjoy time with friends and also spend time with your girlfriend. She must be very insecure, to not want you to have anyone besides her in your life. Don't you feel stifled? I would.
2006-07-27 22:56:00 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
if you do pick....you should pick you FRIENDS.
2006-07-27 22:55:56 · answer #7 · answered by ♥Middle Child♥ 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋