My man wants me to go down on him while he records me.... he says he wont show any1....he says it will be between us and his hand....I've been with him for 6 months....I want to make him happy....please help???
2006-07-27 15:38:49 · 39 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
NO!!NO!!! You are not married and you can not trust him. If you feel uncomfortable you should! Why would you even think of degrading yourself further by filming it? Tell him to be happy with you and respect you or to hit the road! You need to repect yourself. A scenerio: A couple of mo from now you break up. Next year you find the man of your dreams and you really want to marry him and he loves you.....and the jerk who recorded your sexual degradation shows up with the movie or just mails it to hurt you for some reason. Now what? Most real men do not want to see their finace doing that or know it happened with their loved one.He wanted a nice girl and now he leaves you to find a nice girl who respects herself. Figure out the answer now.
2006-07-27 15:54:47 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dont let him do it. It may seem like you have been together a while, but 6 mos is nothing in the grand scheme of things. It is always a bad idea to have tapes of you doing sexual things...just ask paris! He could sell it, show it to his friends, or just have and use it if you broke up. Even if he gave it to you, how would you ever know that that is the ONLY copy?? It is a bad idea, explain to him that it is demeaning, and if he doesnt get that, he does not deserve you!
2006-07-27 15:48:56 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hun never do something you dont feel comfortable with.. Think about what would happen to it if you and he broke up what would he do with it especially if it was on bad terms that the relationship ends, Don't take it the wrong way I'm all for makein your own enjoyment videos but make sure that it is something you feel comfortable with and not something you will feel ashamed of when its over..If he loves you he will understand and if he doesnt understand then hun watch your heart around him it may end up broke....Good Luck and always follow your instincts they will always steer you in the right direction...
2006-07-27 15:48:17 · answer #3 · answered by shell b 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't do it. If you feel uncomfortable it's for a reason. Six months really isn't enough time to get to know someone. If he doesn't want to show anyone then why does he want to record it? Just the fact that you're doing it should be enough for him. It's to risky tell him to forget about it.
2006-07-27 15:41:50 · answer #4 · answered by Peace 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dont do anything that will make you feel uncomfortable. If he cares for you at all. he will respect your wishes.. PS.. the whole relationship isnt always about "making him happy" especially if he is asking you to do something you really dont want to do. PSS.. if its just between you and him.. then why the recording???
2006-07-27 15:43:36 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you feel uncomfortable, then dont do it. I know a lot of my friends had done that in the past and ended up regretting it. What if your relationship goes bad? he might show it to his friends. But if you have a wild side, then maybe that would be alright. Just follow your heart and try to see if its going to benefit you or harm you. If your man loves you, he would respect your decision. :)
2006-07-27 15:46:33 · answer #6 · answered by wittlewabbit 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-12-10 16:06:20 · answer #7 · answered by boulger 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if you feel you might want to do it... its up to you.
But what I would certainly not recommend is the Video tape. If its all a fantasy have hem pretend there is a tape on the recorder. You are better off making sure there isn't any tape made, its just cant bring you any good.
2006-07-27 16:29:44 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I have done this with my man on his cell phone but not like video camero. I have been with my man for almost 2 years and i am comfortable doing anything with him. But if you feel uncomfortable DO NOT do it!!!! You have to always be comfortable when doing something with a partner dont do something just to make him happy what about you.
2006-07-27 15:44:32 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
i hope i caught you in time.DO NOT DO IT.that is what paris hilton thought ,and look what happen to her.the internet if full of crap like that.give him a box of kleenex and tell him to be nice to his hand cause that is the only sex he should be getting.you've only been with him six months,he probably has already filmed you while having sex.he sounds like a perv,you should dump him and find someone who respects enough to have a normal relationship.good luck with your life.
2006-07-27 15:50:07 · answer #10 · answered by spocklogical1 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋