Well the story starts by when me and my man Tylar hucked up these girls told him that i was cheating on him with there boyfriends. I just needed some1 2 talk to in that class and none of my homeskiillets was in there, so i talked to the girls boyfriends which they got jealouse and told Tylar that i was cheating on him! I want him back and for him to know the whole misunderstanding befor we really do split up and never even look at each other! And those girls to get a life! PLEASE HELP!!! i love him and i dont think i can move on :(
2006-07-27 15:33:59 · 17 answers · asked by Christina K 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
If your boyfriend doesn't believe you over some strangers, then there's a deeper problem than the incident you're describing. Trust is the most valuable thing in a relationship... have you given him some reason NOT to trust you?
2006-07-27 15:37:28 · answer #1 · answered by Doctor Why 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Well, if you're innocent he should understand that these girls are jealous because you talked to their boyfriends in class. It's not like you propositioned anyone! Your boyfriend should understand that nothing happened in class- I mean doesn't he talk with girls in his class?
Tell him how you feel any way you can- in person, by phone or letter. Make sure that he understands what your take on the situation is. If he can't forgive you- he was looking for a reason to break up with you.
If he's that jealous, he's too immature to handle the feelings of a girlfriend. The most you can do is let him know that you weren't cheating and had no intention of it and that you want things to be the same between you two. Say you're sorry if this has upset him, but those girls are despicable. You can't do more than that.
Good luck.
2006-07-27 22:41:47 · answer #2 · answered by Linda S 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Lower down your pride.. go and talk to him!! oh men! i know what you feel.. talk to him, be honest, emphasize that you stil have the feeling for him (that you still love him). Its a matter of pride and risk! talk to him even though you think its annoying. if he really does love you he is willing to go back to you or even establish a new boyfriend. and stop gtalking to other guys. you know how guys get jealous right.
Make tylar feel tjat he isstill imoortant to you, that you need him even though its a bit humiliating, so what! peolpe dont feel what you feel.. go for it! LOVE comes Once in a lifetime. do it before its too late. i know for sure Tylar is also depressed and was very sorry for what he did, just prove to him that you didnt cheat! stay true and be honest! express what you feel gurL!
thats what i did and guess what, i won! ;D
you'll never get over him until you win his heart back!
take time but do it before its too late!
but if HE don'T..
you must know how to give up!
A shoulder must know how to fight and when to give up!
2006-07-27 22:45:13 · answer #3 · answered by apreeL p 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he loves you, he will listen to your explanation and would choose to believe in you than from some silly girls. Talk to him then. Do what you can so you can talk to him, but if he's really not interested on clearing things up, maybe you should check if maybe he's just looking for excuse to break things up. Then, there's nothing that you can do.. except having a clear conscience that you did everything that you could for this relationship.
2006-07-27 22:57:36 · answer #4 · answered by calla 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
get over it talk to him you don't need advise you need to just go talk to him and if you do split it may feel like the end of the world but it is not and you would most likely be better off without him if he would believe some other girl and mot you unless you have given him a real reason to doubt your loyalty in the past
2006-07-27 22:37:39 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
First, you can move on. life always goes on.
Second, write down everything that happened and anything you want to say to your boyfriend. it might help.
Third, i wouldnt say anything bad about those girls (like, no calling them bad names). Since they are part of the story you can include them but dont bad mouth them, it shows maturity when you dont do that.
2006-07-27 22:38:06 · answer #6 · answered by ziggunerin 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, if he'd rather believe what other people say than what his girlfriend says, he's not worth it.
You don't want to be with a guy who listens to gossip, wouldn't you want to be with someone who believes you? You really need to move on.
2006-07-27 22:36:24 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You can probably kill them all. Violence is always the best answer.
Let the streets flow with the blood of the trash talkers.
2006-07-27 22:39:11 · answer #8 · answered by Johnny Fo 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
PERSONALLY I THINK THAT YOU NEED TO MOVE ON IF HES NOT WILLING TO LISTEN TO YOUR SIDE OF THE STORY BEFORE HE MAKES A DECSION. I THINK THAT IS CRUEL AND IN MATURE. FIND SOMEONE WHO WILL BE THERE FOR YOU. BE STRONG AND SHOW HIM THAT YOU DO NOT NEED HIM.
2006-07-27 22:39:03 · answer #9 · answered by sunshine girl 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You can move on, and you will move on. If this guy of yours does not believe you, do you really want him???
If you were flirting and causing mischief, shame on you.
2006-07-27 22:41:55 · answer #10 · answered by Matilda 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋