I am having a hard time. I Love this one guy and I think he loves me make. By the way he acts and everyone thinks so too. The prob is I barley see him. And this other guy i see everyday is sooooo nice and he likes me. I feel bad bacause im using him yo make the one i love jelous. I feel bad . But the more time i spend w/ him and not with my guy the more im starting to like him. What should I do?
2006-07-27 15:31:32 · 17 answers · asked by amy b 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
The best thing you can do is develop a relationship with the guy who like you. Life is to short to be passing up a good thing for something your not sure on. Forget about the other guy for now. Using one to make another one jealous you may end up losing both. No one like to be used. Spend time with the one who likes you. If that doesn't work out then maybe try the second guy if he's still in the picture.
2006-07-27 15:40:59 · answer #1 · answered by donlide 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Seem like you need a open relationship! a break from a relationship
But if it dont work out, its time for seperation. Dating is all about trust, you cant have either one be jelous! a relationship becomes weak if that happens! Image if he does what you do for example, how would you feel about it?
You cant have 2 wives in this country, it doesnt work that way. Just think it over and make a choice!
Yahoo Answers is here to help, but we are limited and you might think about what a stranger say! but sometimes we are just like you. Good luck
Ciao
2006-07-27 15:38:15 · answer #2 · answered by vaiosoft 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if you love this guy so much you should not have any feelings towards the other guy, and that s not a real good way to make your boyfreind jelous. all thats going to do is make him mad and then yall will get a big fight. its is a great way to end a relationship./ maybe you should make more time for your boyfreind and quite spending time with the other boy as much. you can spend time with him just make sure you stay freinds and it doesnt go past that. you have to draw the line between freinds with guys of the guys will take it the wrong way.
2006-07-27 15:39:15 · answer #3 · answered by bundy_845 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First of all, never try to make someone jealous because of a guy who possibly doesn't love you in return. It wont' be a fair game to him. You fall in love, knowing you won't get love in return sometimes, right? Neither way, I think you're beginning to fall for the guy you're playing with. The more time you spend with him, the more you will like him. I think you should find out if your guy loves you by asking him..then, if you really start to like this other guy..go for it. You can't lie to your heart! Trust me :D
2006-07-27 15:37:18 · answer #4 · answered by lifesw33tmyst3ry 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Pick one and work on that relationship. The fact that you're using number 2 to get number one means you don't have number one. You can't think someone loves you. You know they do, or they don't love you.
You need to openly communicate with each one and determine what you really have there. You might find that neither is really interested in being in a committed relationship with you. You're just guessing.
2006-07-27 15:36:52 · answer #5 · answered by Tony T 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should relax... it's not the end of the world if you don't date the guy you think you might like, or if you date the guy that you may be about to like.... just chill out, and have fun dating! Go out with anyone you want to.
2006-07-27 15:36:26 · answer #6 · answered by Landslide 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
How can you love someone you barely see? (and how can he love you when he barely sees you?) If you like this other guy, spend time with him, (since you seem to have more time to spend with him). See how that goes...if it works out, great. If not, move on...Hope it works out for you!
2006-07-27 15:36:45 · answer #7 · answered by Jenna 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you have to be fair to both. have you talked to the guy you really really like and said he i want to see you more?? if so what did he say. Be careful because if you play the guy that likes you and you like him a little bit it comes back to bite you in the but later.. my advise is be honest and dont play games with the guys its not fair to you or him or the guy you are with good luck
i know you want the attention from the one guy you like but with out letting him know you cant really complain
2006-07-27 15:36:25 · answer #8 · answered by Antonio 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Girl u should go with they one your useing to make him jelous. He already likes you
2006-07-27 15:37:19 · answer #9 · answered by Pooh Bear 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't do that. Leave the other guy and search out the one you love. go for it. If you don't like the other guy what have you got to loose.
2006-07-27 15:36:13 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋