my boyfriend that i have been dating for 3 mounths just dumped me last night.i love him so much. he said it was because we fought to much but i was 2 hrs away and he would get mad because i was their and not here with him. at first i cried and he yelled because i didn't understand. then he came on to me and said we could be just like we were befor. he asked me if i wanted to be friends with benifits but i said that to him a long time ago and he said hell no. then today we kinda fought because of last night. i cant let him go help me please anyone
2006-07-27 15:29:55 · 10 answers · asked by kristi 2 in Health ➔ Other - Health
Look, have some self-respect, will ya? you don't mean anything to this guy. He's using you. Are you that needy to let a guy walk all over you and screw you any time he feels like it? Find something else to do with your time; do something nice for yourself; do something constructive and stop destroying your womanhood!!! Get some guts, will you and tell this guy to get lost! don't talk to him, don't be friends, don't contact him at all. Find someone who will love and adore you. it's what you deserve.
2006-07-27 15:50:44 · answer #1 · answered by Sassy OLD Broad 7 · 7⤊ 0⤋
Move on - Don't torture yourself with mind games. Sounds like he may not know what he wants. If you're always "bickering" it will get old for you anyway - he's just speeding things up.
I would say be friends. But if you really love him, I would imagine that wouldn't be possible (wouldn't for me anyway). Cut the strings mentally; he has already dumped you - what point is there in trying to change his feelings? Probably ain't gonna happen
2006-07-27 22:47:15 · answer #2 · answered by cat lady 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Are you kidding me? So now think about this:
There is a God in heaven who is watching you.
Do you think that ignoring God makes Him go away?
Do you think that the purpose for which God created you includes this?
Or do you think you are here without purpose ?
Think about it: Your whole being is crying out for a RELATIONSHIP! Explain that with the theory of evolution! (Oh gee, we creatures who are all accidental freaks of nature just want to be LOVED.)
Well, this isn't the help you were asking for, of course, but I do hope you'll wake up to your Eternal nature, and make choices accordingly. After all, with all that's going on in the Middle East and elsewhere, it may come sooner than we all expect.
2006-07-27 15:55:29 · answer #3 · answered by tennisman1954 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Forget him. Find another fish in the sea.
Dont be shy. Go up to some dude you like and ask him the time
especaly if he does have a watch.. Or ask him what kind of watch is that. ? When he ansers say what are you doing this friday.
2006-07-27 15:42:29 · answer #4 · answered by Kangvbc 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you are fighting after just 3 months, what makes you think it is possibly going to improve? Further, why would you want to be with someone you don't even get along with? Sure doesn't sound like a love match!!
2006-07-27 15:36:56 · answer #5 · answered by mrcricket1932 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just move on be friends but if yall still like each other than have benefits. good luck
2006-07-27 15:33:14 · answer #6 · answered by sanchez detail 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He's a jerk. Friends with benefits?? Yeah, right. He's using you.
2006-07-27 15:37:42 · answer #7 · answered by PixelWire 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If it doesn't work, just dump him. It's not rocket science.
2006-07-27 15:35:08 · answer #8 · answered by Mandee 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You can do way better, believe me, a week and you won't even remember who he is.
2006-07-27 15:34:13 · answer #9 · answered by Fraspas 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
can we be friends with benifits?
2006-07-27 15:37:06 · answer #10 · answered by jokedrugs 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋