Sometime when I have sex it feels so uncomfortable so, I will try different positions until I find the right position. And then other times I have sex ANY position and it doesn't hurt. Is that normal? I am not in pain but it just feel sooo uncomfortable that I am not enjoying it
2006-07-27 15:27:52 · 12 answers · asked by ME 3 in Health ➔ Other - Health
it's most likely a matter of lubrication and arousal - when you're fully aroused, the vagina actually lengthens and prepares for penetration - which means that you actually have less discomfort during sex (especially if you're having problems with 'deeper' positions)..it's also possible that your partner needs to be slightly gentler until you ARE fully aroused. Since lubrication might also be an issue, try a little KY and see if that makes any difference. If after trying these things you're still having pain, bring it up to your OBGYN as it could be a symptom of an underlying condition.
2006-07-27 15:33:36 · answer #1 · answered by kansas8099 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋
It is normal. Don't worry. We all can't be porn stars. Me for example, my cervix is 1/2 inch in so I have a lot of discomfort in some positions but some days those uncomfortable positions turn out to be the best position. You just have to experiment and make it fun!
2006-07-27 22:33:40 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Experimenting to find the most comfortable position for sexual intercourse is quite normal for everyone. Changing positions is also normal because some positions are uncomfortable to some people.
2006-07-27 22:35:08 · answer #3 · answered by Jess4rsake 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Normal. You may have a tilt to your vaginal canal that is causing some positions to work better than others. As for the fact that all positions are comfortable at times - the vaginal canal can stretch up to 2 inches based on your level of arousal.
Next time you see your doctor, mention it and ask if there is anything anatomical that would explain this.
2006-07-27 22:33:37 · answer #4 · answered by Nitris 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i am the same way, some ways are way too uncomfortable and some even hurt, i have to move around too and fine the right position
2006-07-27 22:31:15 · answer #5 · answered by lulucakes32 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Totally normal!
Make your man give you plenty of foreplay, to the point that you are craving to have him inside you. By that point, the vagina should be well-lubricated and the muscles relaxed. (Even then, sometimes it just isn't comfortable. Time to "settle" for having him satisfy you orally!)
2006-07-27 22:34:20 · answer #6 · answered by Eric 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I have been told that you need to be wet or very turned on before you have sex for it not to hurt.
2006-07-27 22:31:28 · answer #7 · answered by Lief Y 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
try plenty of lubrication and make sure your mentally in the mood if sex becomes painful see your doctor.
2006-07-27 22:36:17 · answer #8 · answered by trearn 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You're not relaxing; probably having muscle spasms in the wrong place. have a glass of wine and then make love.
2006-07-27 22:31:17 · answer #9 · answered by Sassy OLD Broad 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I know exactly what you are saying, so many posistions feel uncomfortable to me as well.... I hope it is normal.
2006-07-27 22:30:50 · answer #10 · answered by Common Sense 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋