2006-07-27 15:17:36 · 43 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
You probably should. Although he will probably marry you anyways, many people have a desire for children so it's good he has all his facts straight before he makes the commitment. Don't worry, even if you can't have children there's many orphan children who would love to have a mom and a dad.
2006-07-27 15:21:06 · answer #1 · answered by musical902003 4 · 8⤊ 4⤋
You should tell him. If he loves you, it won't matter. The two of you can adopt. Since you already know you are infertile, you can start trying to adopt right away since it sometimes takes years to get a baby. Or you could wait until you are ready and adopt a baby from overseas. Either way, if he loves you and he wants children, there are ways to work this out. However, witholding imporant information could cause him to resent you later.
2006-07-27 15:22:05 · answer #2 · answered by CleverGal 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, but you must tell him before you marry him or at least tell him that you think you might be infertile. You must let him know that it's at least a possibility before you get married.
2006-07-27 15:22:37 · answer #3 · answered by carobygirl 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Something as important as this you should tell him now' so that he will have the chance to stay with you for you. If he really loves you he will stay with you' If you don't that will end the relationship a couple years down the line' you will live with that stress; which is not good for you. So do the right thing honey and tell the truth.
ROBERT
2006-07-27 15:30:22 · answer #4 · answered by ROBERT 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Are you kidding me? Of course you have to tell him. Why would you want to be in a relationship based on lies? You can't truly love someone if you are willing to deceive them from the start. If he doesn't want to marry you after knowing, then I would have to ask myself if he really loved you to begin with. Love will always find a way if it's real.
2006-07-27 15:27:22 · answer #5 · answered by funique35 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Of course, that reveals what kind of woman who he will be dealing with (honesty).
If you wait after marriage, nothing stop him from walking out on you. He will get a perfect excuse to leave you. But honesty, he might choose that over having his own children.
There is adoption method as a back up and he know that too.
Cheers
2006-07-27 15:25:09 · answer #6 · answered by Farani P 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you should of told him in the beginning because now it is a good chance he could be come very upset that you never told him but than on the other hand he might just respect the fact it was a difficult subject for you and understand why you waited to tell him but either way you need to tell him asap
2006-07-27 15:21:47 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well being a married woman......and knowing that my husband wants children, I would think that it would be the right thing to do. If you love this Guy then you need to be honest with him!!! If he wants children let him know you can't give them to him.....BUT there is always adoption, surrogate mothers, there are alot of children that do not have loving parents.......maybe you two can find one to love!
2006-07-27 15:23:24 · answer #8 · answered by singngrl_2001 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-12-10 16:06:03 · answer #9 · answered by boulger 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, I know this must not be an easy decision for you, but if you truly love this man then you must be open and honest with him and tell him the truth. And if he truly loves you and wants to spend the rest of his life with you, then it won't matter. Wouldn't you rather know you're marrying someone who loves you for who you are anyway?
2006-07-27 15:23:42 · answer #10 · answered by mJc 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well LERA that was a mean and uncalled for answer...any way hun you should have a heart to heart with him because if he does wont kids in the future he may feel cheated or betraid by not tellin' him....and if he does wont kids then you and him can have a nice long talk about all the diffrent adoption options there are....i sure wish you luck on this one hun....love daisy
2006-07-27 15:24:08 · answer #11 · answered by crazy_daisy 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋