Why my bf always says that i don't want him to care for me?? I just don't understand..?

Question

It started again last night. I told him i didn't have my dinner coz lazy to buy, so just ate something i have; Then he became not happy and said he won't remind me again, then i just replied ok. After that he didn't say anything and just kept quiet.
I know he was angry.. After an hr i asked him what's wrong and he told me this.
Well, i just don't understand! I never said i don't him care for me anfd in fact i'm glad he cares a lot of me.. But it's just so irritating that he nags on sth which is alreay done. I didn't had my dinner, so how? It's over already...LOL

Answer 1

You are very lucky tt your bf is so concerned abt u. U may find it very irriating coz he keeps on nagging on something that is being done. If he din even bother to ask U on such things, how do U feel? Basically as a guy I thk tt most ladies like to have a bf like yours. He is so caring and concerned about his gf and this type of guy is very rare in this world already. Most guy dun even bother to ask if their gf had taken their meals or show such concern to them. I know sometimes ppl dun like their partner to nag at them coz it can be very irriating. but sometimes when ppl nag at U, it is for your own good especially your partner. Sometimes U have understand why he is angry over such matters. It is bcoz he dun want U to fall sick and from this fact we can know tt he is concerned about u. Make up with him before he is sntached away by other girls.

Answer 2

The idea is that you bf is as frustrated as you are as to rectify this problem. Evidently you see him as being naggy while he perceives you as being stubborn.
The key to the proble, however is that you said 'ok'.
Its as though you were saying that it doesn't matter if he doesn't care about you because there are others who will.
Just go out with him and give him a kiss and all will be forgiven.