Theres this kid that I really like but I'm not sure if he likes me. He knows who I am and sometimes I catch him looking my way. He always smiles at me but never talks to me cause I think he's shy in the way I am(when you like someone it feels weird to talk to them) So anyone have advice?? Guys and Girls!
2006-07-27 14:56:00 · 6 answers · asked by Emily 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Go and talk to him! Really, talk to him until he starts talking to you. That's the easiest way, and most likely to succeed. Good luck!
2006-07-27 15:00:59 · answer #1 · answered by anonymous 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hey girl, I'm 18 and the same way you are. I'm kinda shy around guys, especially ones I like. There have been some guys in the past I knew liked me but I never did anything about it, and now I look back and regret it. And regret sucks! So I suggest just going up and introducing yourself if you haven't "officially" met and just start talking to him, and make sure you make eye contact and smile!! :) Those 2 things will draw a person in and let them know you are interested. If he looks at you a lot, and smiles and makes eye contact he could like you. Also see where his body/feet point..if they are in your direction most of the time, that is a good sign too. You said he is shy so he may give eye contact and then look away really quickly. Also when you do talk to him, look at his eyes and pupils (not too obviously!!) and see if his pupils get larger when talking to you. They say that when you look at someone you find "attractive" your pupils dialate/enlarge to "take more of them in." But just be yourself and smile, and that is all you should have to do!! :) Good luck and God bless!!
2006-07-27 22:05:50 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
So far you're off to a good start. Keep smiling! That shows that you are interested and approachable. Next time you see him, compliment him on his jacket, shirt, hat or whatever. "Oooh..
like that hat!" ... You don't even have to push it any further than that. Depending on if he wants to continue the conversation.
Other lines to get him talking are - "Saw you at the practice, what position are you going out for?" ... "I've seen you around, what's your name?" ..
My son just got this one... and he loved it. "I don't think I know you, but you sure seem like someone worth knowing!" It made his day!
Just remember to loosen up and go with the flow. You probably don't know if he has a girlfriend. Go in with the hopes of making a new friend. Remember how valuable and worthwhile you are. He'd be lucky to have you as a friend.
Good luck!
2006-07-27 22:07:55 · answer #3 · answered by Linda S 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes, he likes you. He wouldn't be smiling at you all the time if he didn't like you. And yes, he's probably shy. That's good quality in a boy, don't you think? If I were you I would find out what he likes to do (skating, football, whatever) and go hang out with him. He'll soon get the message. B
2006-07-27 22:02:40 · answer #4 · answered by Bethany 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think he likes you! definitely! sounds so cute and fun. eventually one of you will have to initiate a conversation, even though you're both shy. but i bet once you start talking it won't feel so awkward. maybe you could start by just waving next time you make eye contact and smile, or by mouthing the word "hi"... or if you pass by him, you could tell him hello. just something small to take it to the next level and test the waters to see how he responds. enjoy!
2006-07-27 22:02:50 · answer #5 · answered by Carly 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
u should try to tak to him. it sounds like he might like u but u will never find out if u just look at him.
2006-07-27 22:28:29 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋