i am kind of nurvous to get a tattoo. i want one but i don't think i want his name, at least not yet, but i know he will be mad if i don't get it..what should i do?
2006-07-27 14:45:37 · 25 answers · asked by Kay 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
WHAT? U r not even 18 yet!!! Don't do it!!! I mean if u do get a tattoo don't get his name first. At least get your own name first. Don't be scared to get one. It really don't hurt that much. I got 5 and one of them is my EX boyfriend's name. I did say EX. We broke up 6 years ago. If u do get his name get it like in a heart or something. Years down the road if y'all decided to go y'all own separated ways u can just get the heart colored in. That way u wont have your EX boyfriend name stuck on u 4eva and your tattoo wont look tacky. LOL
2006-07-27 14:56:01 · answer #1 · answered by juceelips 1 · 28⤊ 5⤋
Well, except you're quite severe with this man, i would not quite NOT do some thing simply on the grounds that of him. However, I am assuming you're 17? I'm 21 now, and I swear, I could shoot myself if I had tattooed on me what I desired whilst I used to be 17. I recognise you feel correct now it would possibly not get ancient.. however critically, it could. If I had been you, I could placed the photograph you desire in an overly noticeable spot for your room, like striking at the wall correct through your mattress so that you consistently seem at it. Wait a pair months after which come to a decision if you happen to nonetheless desire that. While I do not always trust Mom of three, it's anything to recollect that many persons WILL pass judgement on you on the grounds that you will have a tattoo. A lot of persons will feel you're skanky and low cost. It's simply the reality. And a noticeable spot real might have an effect on activity clients. Just anything to feel approximately.
2016-08-28 16:45:30 · answer #2 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
1. It's your body..if you don't want a tattoo of his name or anything else, don't do it.
2. Do you really want the name of this guy tattooed on your body for the rest of your life...or a paled out place when you have it removed?
3. If he gets mad, tell him to kiss your behind on the spot where there is no tattoo with his name on it, and never will be.
2006-07-27 14:50:01 · answer #3 · answered by Kaia 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It would be impulsive. Most periods in a person's life do not last more than three years. Think of where your head was at 3 years ago and the things you could have done that would regret now. Think of who were your friends then and aren't now.
If you are still with your boyfriend in three years I'd say think about it. Just because he's the center of your universe right now (and maybe vice versa) it doesn't mean you are even going to be friends with him in three years. Most relationships (even friendships) you have when you are young, unless you commit yourself to them as in marriage, or room with a best friend, do not last into your mid 20's.
2006-07-27 14:55:52 · answer #4 · answered by Jake Lockley 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just let him know that you will get a tattoo with his name on sometime but it will be a surprise when you do. That is a big step, if you two ever break-up then you will have his name on your body somewhere to remind you of that love. Then how are you going to be able to move on to someone else if you have his name on you. right?
2006-07-27 14:59:08 · answer #5 · answered by amy h 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think that you not being sure if you want to get his name on your body is enough to not do that. And hon, if he doesnt respect you for your decision to not do that, you either need to have a talk with him about respect or ditch him. Also, people change. How do you know if you two will always be together? You wont want to have a guy's name on your body if you're seeing someone else. Good luck.
2006-07-27 14:51:23 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
First of all, agreeing with most people, if you're scared to get one, don't do it. It may not be worth it for you. Second of all, it's definitely not worth it to get someone else's name tatooed on you. My friend did that when we were sixteen, and when she got married, she did not marry the same guy, but the dress she wanted showed the tatoo. She had to wear a band-aid and make up to try and cover it. She REALLY regretted it.
2006-07-27 15:00:53 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
well first its ur body
second he shouldn't pressure u to do something
third: {my real advice}
get a henna!!!!!!! works every time!!! my ex bf and my current bf wanted me to do that so i got a henna and he never knew
but look don't get a real tattoo cuz it'll last forever cuz think when ur all like 80 and wrinkley and stuff---then u won't want one and so i would just get a henna that way if u find this cool new one u can get one of those
well anywayz i g2g but i hope u have a great day and good luck in life!!!!!!!!!
2006-07-27 14:53:41 · answer #8 · answered by dropdeadgorgeous 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's not his body, it's yours. If you don't want one and he gets mad, then let him get mad, because he can't force you to do anything that's yours. Have some dignity and guts to tell him that you're not sure if this is what you want to do. Besides, the cost and the excrutiating pain of a tattoo removal is unimaginable.
2006-07-27 14:50:39 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If for some reason you should break up with him, you are stuck with his name tattooed on your skin, and it will hurt to get it removed.
I would not do it, anyway there has been an outbreak of blood poisoning, because of dirty needles used for tattoo's
It is not worth the risk.
2006-07-27 14:52:38 · answer #10 · answered by brown.gloria@yahoo.com 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, just think about this...if you get the tattoo with his name and later break-up (not saying it would happen), would you want to have his name on your body?
2006-07-27 14:49:45 · answer #11 · answered by camcor001 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋