No disrespect to anyone who has been raped. I have fantasy of just being totally taken over and giving up complete control. My man isnt really up for it...he is a bad actor and just couldn't get into it, he starts laughing. Am i a complete weirdo? Guys- does this fantasy turn you on? Would you do it?
2006-07-27 14:41:58 · 33 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
no, not at all. i think in something i read it siad that most women have a rape fantasy, but don't admit it.
so u admit it, and so do i.
u go girl!
2006-07-27 14:46:13 · answer #1 · answered by Mafia 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Just by your question, I can tell this would be somthing you would NOT want to happen to you in real life. I can say that everyone has fantasy triggers, some can be kinda freaky, some can be just plain gross. The difference of your fantasy is that even though you fantasize of being totally taken over and giving up complete control, it is with someone that you are most likely physically attracted too...
If your husband isn't up for a little role playing, you can always use the fantasy to your advantage and just fantasize when you are sexually engaged with him and double your pleasure.
2006-07-27 14:49:39 · answer #2 · answered by Deu 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Actually this is a common fantasy for women to have. I have been raped and I understand that it is a turn on for some people. As long as it's not truly rape there is nothing wrong with it.
I like for my man to be dominant and tell me what to do so it's almost the same thing.
2006-07-27 14:47:01 · answer #3 · answered by BbyGrl80 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think a lot more women than you think have this fantasy. And it's okay to have as a fantasy, but props to your man for not doing it. Most decent men won't. It's okay as a fantasy, but this is a fantasy that should stay inside your head. You don't really want to get hurt, do you?
2006-07-27 14:45:20 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
No disrespect but maybe there is some underlying problem there. Maybe you have the fantasy because you feel the need to be wanted at all costs. Just a thought.
2006-07-27 14:45:09 · answer #5 · answered by adam_lumina93 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ive read that its a common fantasy. The rape aspect allows you to be free of guilt, while the fact that its a fantasy (or role-playing with someone you trust) makes it completely safe.
2006-07-27 14:50:08 · answer #6 · answered by Phil S 5 · 2⤊ 0⤋
No not weird at all... Maybe you should try bondage... A lot of women have fantasies about being over powered by someone and taken advantage of... Some fantasize about being molested!!
Don't worry, you're safe...
Now if you thought about being raped by a DOG, you may have some issues....
2006-07-27 14:45:58 · answer #7 · answered by Sienna Baker 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You probably have a fantasy of a man being very aggressive and you liking it. Totally different then being raped against your will.
2006-07-27 14:44:25 · answer #8 · answered by luvlisteningtomusic 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yep, have been there. Gotta be very cautious not to hurt anyone or get hurt from your side. But if your bf is not into it, better back off. This is the real heavy stuff. Many women fantasize about this but many won't discuss it. Possibly out of respect for those who have suffered it in life. One of the most horrible crimes for certain!
2006-07-27 14:46:30 · answer #9 · answered by michael g 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
It is not weird. Many women have such fantacies. In fact it is one of the top fantacies next to a stranger comming up from behind and seduccing her.
2006-07-27 14:45:34 · answer #10 · answered by Diamond Freak :) 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋