How can i take care of my husband?

Question

i want him to love me more and more and never get bored

actually he takes good care of me

or at least i know that he started doing his best

Answer 1

After 34 years of marriage I can tell you that you will need to accept some times that aren't always perfect. Be realistic. Life situations will create tension and even boredom and anger sometimes... and those hard times may last awhile. But the important thing about marriage is that you accept the bad times & the good times. If life was always perfect, we wouldn't appreciate it; hence the troubles worked out between you make the easy times that much sweeter.

Men tend to consider a good sex life very important. Sometimes women aren't always that enthusiastic, especially when your body goes through changes like childbirth. But you should try to make it work; don't just turn him off when you're not in the mood. You should be honest with him... no game playing. The longer a couple is together, the better they are at sex-- if they keep at it and learn to do what their partner likes most.

Be an interesting person. Don't just live your life for him. If you do not have a career, have a hobby, friends, something that gives you things to talk about but still leaves time to be with him when he needs you.

Answer 2

Then don't get boring...keep things new and exciting. make him want to do the same. If he doesn't you'll get tired of doing all the work yourself and the relationship will become one-sided. Marriage is a 50-50 relationship...takes two to make and two to break.

Answer 3

Let him full fill all sexual fantasies with you.... and I mean this without bringing other people in to the scene....like, if he's always dreamed of catching your masturbating..then set it up so he can catch you... If he wants to try anal, then watch some porn with it so you can relax a lil bit about it and give it an honest try.....it works....

Talk to each other and find out all those little things that turn him on and start doing them...one by one.

Answer 4

One of the main complaints from men about their wives is that after being married for awhile they tend to start slacking off in the staying fit, watching what they wear ( don't wear sweats and old tshirts) they don't keep wearing makeup and fixing their hair.
It is like they don't care about their appearance any more.

To keep your man happy you have to keep doing the things that you did to get him in the first place.

Answer 5

Every relationship changes as years go by. Everyone has their ups and downs in marriage. You can spice it up if you really want to try. He might get bored and you might get bored at times its normal but if you spice it up it can be great.

Answer 6

Be there whenever he needs you. Listen, talk, cook , understand , respect for each other actually there's a lot of ways to show that you care and love him.

Answer 7

Be his friend first.....that is always important because he should feel as if he can do or say anything around you.........You can never get bored if u live life like its your last day....(something new happens everyday) so act like!!!

Answer 8

you should get a book called The five Love Languages by Gary Chapman it teaches you how to read his love language so you can show him how much you love him in away he understands

Answer 9

Just do it like me, try to do different things with him! So nobody get bored.

Answer 10

You must not only care for him, but care for yourself. You will keep his interest by ensuring that you value yourself and know your own worth.