please don,t tell me to go find someone to share my life with there is a reason that is not an option.
2006-07-27 14:36:09 · 10 answers · asked by sally p 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Speaking from experience, yes one can find happiness being alone. Once you have been alone for a while and get set into a routine of activities, work classes or whatever interests you then you get to a point to where you like things the way they are and are skeptic of any possibilities that may change it. Consider this the time to get to know yourself better or find out the type of person you want to be. Pursue new things, take night classes if you need to work around a schedule but never assume you need another person in your life for it to be of value or matter. If in the future it is meant for you to have a relationship you can enter it knowing that your past will not affect your future.
2006-07-27 14:50:59 · answer #1 · answered by Blu 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Forget YOUR question.... I want to ask you WHY it's not an option??
Not to be mean, but I don't believe happiness can be found alone...
You can have "alone time" and be happy, but I think at the end of the day, life SUCKS if you don't share your life with someone you love (kids, family, etc.)
Would really like to find out what your reason is...
2006-07-27 14:43:31 · answer #2 · answered by Sienna Baker 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Keeping busy and reflecting on why you chose the situation of being alone. If you keep busy then you don't have time to think of why you are alone. If you reflect on the reasons why you chose to be alone you will understand why you are. But the happiness is being content with your life when you are alone and having friends helps out.
2006-07-27 14:41:51 · answer #3 · answered by D-man 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are right, happiness has to start with yourself.You need to be happy on your own. It is not easy, but some people do it.
I am still trying to figure it out, but no matter what, remember this,
your happiness will NOT come from someone else.
2006-07-27 15:12:03 · answer #4 · answered by Mx2 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Think of it this way no one to answer to. You are your boss. Holidays are a breeze no one to buy for, and nobody gets to use your tv remote. So when you get up to use the bathroom your not stuck watching Gilmore Girls or something of that nature. Total Bliss
2006-07-27 14:41:57 · answer #5 · answered by NEOTEH 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
do some soul searching, take up rock climbing or something exhilerating! Explore all ur dreams like becoming an artist! take up an instrument or something...oh!... get a pet! dogs are very loving and loyal!!
2006-07-27 14:47:57 · answer #6 · answered by Bugg 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
keep busy, you wont have time to be lonly,do volenter work,work 2 jobs, I spend alot of time with my adult kids,sometimes i think i was meant to be alone.
2006-07-27 14:44:08 · answer #7 · answered by smurfette_ftwayne 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you never will. your scared 4 the rest of ur life ,to die alone?
2006-07-27 14:42:20 · answer #8 · answered by J.M. 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
masturbation is awesome fun. without someone there you can really get it right.
2006-07-27 14:46:05 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
what is the reason?
2006-07-27 14:41:00 · answer #10 · answered by ? 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋