like, when they dont do it with their boyfriends, cause the guy is too much of a gentleman, but some 'bad boy' comes along, sweeps em off the feet, then they have wild animal sex and she becomes a nympho? thats really sucks dude. now i really hate myself. no wonder nice guys finish last. damn, why did life deal me a deck of cards where im the cheesehead nice guy? how can i become that 'bad dude'?
2006-07-27 14:35:35 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
It is pure ignorance about their own bodies and gender roles that allows women, virgins or not to be repeatedly, duped by men who are not worth their most remote thoughts. Women bond emotionally through sex, touch and close physical proximity with the opposite gender, naturally. The hormone responsible for that bonding is called OCYTOCIN. Women must learn to avoid contact with the bad dudes and use their thinking capacities to select men who respect them and will commit to them. Sex means nothing without intimacy, to the female of the human species. Doing it with a boyfriend is not doing it with a HUSBAND and there is a great difference. That accounts for the gender role chaos and for the demise of family life in the West today. It is said the one who laughs LAST, laughs best. Please, don't hate yourself . You may be among the only gentlemen still around. Someone decent is looking for YOU.
2006-07-27 14:54:21 · answer #1 · answered by Jess4rsake 7 · 3⤊ 0⤋
No, that is not natural. If it was, then you'd feel the same way. If you are church going people, then he should speak to your pastor about his crisis. The problem with threesomes is that sometimes emotions get involved and you'll just have a different kind of crisis then. This is something you two have to discuss. If you don't want to be a part of this and you don't want him to be with another woman then you have to speak up and say that you married him because you don't want to be with someone else and you expect the same. On the other hand, if you are okay with your husband having sex with someone else then go play and have fun! Not many relationships are strong enough to survive this type of thing. Really try to picture your husband having sex with a someone else, does that excite you or make you sick? Will he mind much if you experiment with other guys? I'd get sick at the thought of my husband's hand on another woman in an intimate way and certainly would be able to handle the sight of him being inside another woman. That's not a marriage in my world. But there are couples that do enjoy 'swinging' so if that appeals to you - enjoy!
2016-03-27 02:45:40 · answer #2 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Women are NEVER duped in to having sex, it just makes them look more innocent if they pretend they were. 99% of the time she just lets him think he's doing some convincing, we know within minutes of meeting a guy whether we will have sex with him or not, if we decide he's not getting it he won't get it no matter what he tries and if we decide he is getting it we go along with it. there is no 'sweeping' or anything else. they either want you or they don't. no need to become anything, just keep looking until you find the girls that decide you will be getting it, thats really all there is to it. guys should know this.
2006-07-27 14:40:17 · answer #3 · answered by dappersmom 6 · 2⤊ 0⤋
hey i was the same way, you just need to be smooth. u know smooth gentleman not like Michael Jackson okay. you can be the nice guy but also learn how to play the game and you don't have to be a bad *** to be the first guy to hit it. Plus good guys finish last but thats okay you know that the best lady that you'll be with would save it for you!!!
2006-07-27 14:41:31 · answer #4 · answered by da skoolar 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
first of all who in the hell in this sex crazy world of ours sita around and is is still a virginn these days or at least claims too be, with some much sex these days everwhere, hell you turn on hbo, and you sit there and watch cable and you dont get turned on and sit around watching this stuff and your still a virginn right, i just cant understand how someone is 20 or 21, cant, sit around and never screw, if they have any looks too them, now if there fat dumpy and 345 pounds well good luck there, i wouldent even touch them eitherr etc but with so much sex sold in this country, its hard too imagine anyone still siting on there duff and being a virginn its just un heard of these days etc
2006-07-27 14:49:14 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
I like nice guys. You might be boring though or lack self esteem. Work on being fun and confident and stay nice!
I lost my virginity to a gentleman.
2006-07-27 14:42:18 · answer #6 · answered by pamgissa 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
No, most of the time the girl knows better, but that doesn't mean that a guy has the right to womanize women.
2006-07-27 14:39:35 · answer #7 · answered by jamesdkral 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There is a saying:
men play at love to get sex and women play at sex to get love.
Who is the winner of this game?
Men, and women need to learn this!
2006-07-27 14:40:03 · answer #8 · answered by athorgarak 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
that happen to you??that sucks man, you could of had made a girl lose her viginity to you....the meaning of bad boy is being bad. You make them feel arouse not by telling them "you want to have sex?" no no no.... tell them by feel and touch and its just gonna lead them into it.
2006-07-27 14:39:46 · answer #9 · answered by franckoboy 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Nice guys don't always come last.
the 'bad dude' attitude is a compensation for something.
2006-07-27 14:38:25 · answer #10 · answered by revoltix 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋