the cliche of it all, the bad guys that'll sweep em off their feet, use em, then leave. while us nice guys are left wondering why they do these stupid things, get hurt, but never give us a fighting chance to win their hearts, and to know we wont ever hurt them. sigh....nice guys always finish last, thats right.
2006-07-27 14:27:24 · 25 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Mature women pick the nice guys because they know that the bad boys will just break their hearts in the end. If you want a long lasting relationship and you are a nice guy, pick a woman who has lived enough of life to know what a good thing a nice guy can be.
2006-07-27 14:31:19 · answer #1 · answered by Onegoddess 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tom Leykis explains it clear as day. When women are young, they don't care they just want to sleep around and that is what the bad boys offer, they also enjoy trying to fix said bad boy. Then when they are nearing their 30's and the bad boy's have had their fun . This same female will be tossed to the side by said bad boy so he can continue the cycle with some other young female.
This is the time when a womans biological clock is counting down and she hits the wall with a few kids, so now she is in dire straights will go for the nice guy who she ignored.
Youtube Tom Leykis, he has vast wisdom on the subject.
2016-10-31 13:57:25 · answer #2 · answered by Wacom pen 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why do people ask this same question every single day instead of searching to find the answers from the other 200 people that posted it? But if you really want the honest answer, its that the bad boys are bad because they can be, they are the hot guys, the guys that can play the game and win, they are the guys that can tell anyone what they want to hear and they will get the girl every time. The nice guys sit in the corner watching while the bad boys go for it. And thats why, nice guys finish last because they are sitting on the side lines, you never get to be the star of the game that way.
2006-07-27 14:31:33 · answer #3 · answered by dappersmom 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
It's actually not about bad versus good. You are just ugly, and not very good with social interactions. Stop blaming the womens choice of dates, and do something to help yourself earn a chance. Here is a good test, go out tonight and just be a total dick to all the ladies you run into. At the end of the night you will still be alone. So now you can rule out the bad boy mentality. Stop blaming women for picking interesting, good looking men, and start working on your negatives. You can be dating in no time. Remember, it's not them, it's you.
2006-07-27 14:34:35 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Humans are biologically driven more than most people want to admit.
Two main forces are at play for mate selection.
1. Desire to optimize genetic material that has maximum chance to result in successfully reproducing offspring. (Breeder)
2. Need for a life partner to ensure survival of progeny to adulthood. (Nuturer)
Or more plainly Sexy man or Good Father.
Women want a man who is both, but will settle for either.
many women get the first one, then get the other one later. That is why single mothers with children often have another child with their second man, their "good" man.
That way, they get the best of both worlds, breeder kids with a good chance of being nutured into adulthood.
Reality is more complicated, but not by much.
2006-07-27 14:35:24 · answer #5 · answered by aka DarthDad 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Boring vs Controversy
2006-07-27 14:29:42 · answer #6 · answered by LaToya J 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Not all ladies are like that...I do not like and can by no means select a nasty boy--they are an excessive amount of difficulty. I truely like first-rate men and used to be fortunate to discover and meet one. Because there are so few first-rate men round, a few ladies make the unlucky alternative of making a choice on up a jerk/dangerous boy.
2016-08-28 16:47:42 · answer #7 · answered by mesidor 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You don'nt never suppose to be sensitive around a female. I go hard from the first day I meet them never showing respect and get my way with them. I go first class while she ride Greyhound and she'll meet me there. You should know this is a men's world God put women here for us men We are the Men of the house.
2006-07-27 14:37:56 · answer #8 · answered by Troubled son 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
"nice guys finish last"
funny statement.. but.. sadly.. its not true.. its just that the guys that dont really go for what they want finish last.. you dont have to be rude and inconsiderate to attract a girl.. just interested in her and have some sort of.. unexplainable connection to this girl.. the only reason nice guys are associated with that statement is because most nice guys are tied to the shy, reclusive men
2006-07-27 14:31:54 · answer #9 · answered by evilcheerioman 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I dont no what to tell u on that one, but i think the nice guys are better, they are more of the romantic type and if they are sensitive it makes them oh so much more loveable...Wen i think of a bad boy i think of a biker guy or sumone who smells bad haha
2006-07-27 14:31:45 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋