i dont want to get a hair cut but my gf says i should.
i like my hair its so soft wavy and shiny....
women like my hair they say it makes me look cute every one says my hair makes me look like a mucler doll.
when i go to one of my woman friends house they allways play with my hair...
it makes me fall asleep
2006-07-27 14:25:04 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
she says that i cant take care of my hair and that im lazy with it.
wich is kinda true thats why i go to my lady friends house to get it comed out.
2006-07-27 14:43:59 · update #1
first off, who's more important, you're women friends or your girlfriend...yes, I know it's your hair but if you really care about her you're going to have to come to some compromise with her to make her happy. Why don't you just get a trim or it cut a little bit shorter; better still, let her pick out a hairstyle for you and if you don't approve of it ask a barber if there's a way to alter it to meet both your standards. And if you still can't come to a compromise with her and she's persistent about it, well maybe it's time to move on to somebody's who likes you for your hair and won't force you to cut it or go against your style
2006-07-27 14:31:43 · answer #1 · answered by Cynicaldreamer 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well I think that you should really think about it. You had your hair when ya'll first got together and she must not have had a problem with it then. I would tell her look you knew when we started dating the way my hair was and now just because you want me to change it I'm not. If she loves you and respects you she wont care she'll love you for who you are not what's on your head. Hope this helps.
2006-07-27 14:31:11 · answer #2 · answered by KC 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well i think u should tell how u feel and if she don't care then move on like u said alot of gurls like ur hair so i'm sure u will find someone that cares about the way u feel about things
2006-07-27 14:32:21 · answer #3 · answered by ghetto_homie13 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Do you love her or do you love the attention from other women? if this woman means anything at all to you, you will please her. Besides why are other women playing with your hair if you have a girl friend? maybe you want to be single instead. Think about it.
2006-07-27 14:31:57 · answer #4 · answered by Mary Ruth H 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
don't cut it......i mean if it makes u feel uncomfortable then tell her so. But hair is also something that grows back. Personally I like men with long or meduim lenght hair I find it sexy. Just tell her though she wants you to cut it, your hair is something that you want to keep.
2006-07-27 14:30:51 · answer #5 · answered by Da _Kyd 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if she likes you with your hair cut, then compomise.... cut it, but don't cut it all the way off. leave some hair, just enough for her to play in it so that you can fall asleep. that way both of you will be happy.
2006-07-27 14:29:25 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would make a compromise. Cut it, but don't cut it short, Cut it just enough for her to be satisfied. If shes not satisfied unless it super-short, then just tell her that you will cut it like she wanted, but you want it to stay semi-long.
2006-07-27 14:33:19 · answer #7 · answered by Kay 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dont cut your hair just because she wants you too,i mean she cant control you. Its your hair do what you want with it
2006-07-27 14:31:01 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
some hairdressers have a digital application the place they take you photograph place it on the show screen & then try distinctive hairstyles.Ring around & inquire yet locate out the fee as I even have heard that's high priced,yet quite worth it.
2016-11-03 03:54:57 · answer #9 · answered by Erika 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just tell her no very firmly, just say its one of those personal things that you cant conpromise with.
If she dosent agree, tell her she can cut your hair only if you get to cut hers.
2006-07-27 14:29:09 · answer #10 · answered by Lana M. 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋