My guy has sex w/ me while I am "sleep" and I wanna know if this is common, weird, or what? I wake up sometimes and move around, just to mess with him and see what he is going to do and he will try to act sleep and then wait a min and try it again. Is this normal? What should I do? Has this happ'd to you? Do you do this? Guys and Girls opinions please!
2006-07-27 14:24:53 · 21 answers · asked by Wana 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I asked him about it and he always laughs about it and says if I wake up it wouldnt bother him, I dont know if I like it or not, I dont have to do anything and his sex drive is always up, we can have sex right before we go to sleep and I can almost time- around 5am, he is trying to get some. I would rather him wake me up though. I am going to talk to him about it, AGAIN!
Guys: Would you rather do your "do", with no complaints or would you rather she wake up?
Girls: Would you do this to your man?
2006-07-27 14:43:02 · update #1
My husband does this to me all the time!!!!!! It usually plays out like a dream to me, in my mind...so its like having a majorly erotic dream...
I finally got him back.....waited until HE was fast asleep...got HIM where I *needed* him, then jumped on and did my thing.....he was just waking up as I was finished, so I hurried up and laid down.... he woke up noticed his swollen member and tried to get frisky with me...lol..I told him I wasn't in the mood so he rolled back over....
I told him about it the next day, lmao, and he was mad..but then laughed at me and was like..Fairs fair I guess....
2006-07-27 14:31:00 · answer #1 · answered by Sharlala 5 · 4⤊ 0⤋
I see alot of people saying this is illegal but you kinda sound like you approve.
"I wake up sometimes and move around, just to mess with him and see what he is going to do"
The best answer I can give you is this. If you want him to continue waking you up with sex. Tell him not to try to be so sneaky about it. If you don't want him to continue, tell him to stop and if he doesn't...dump him.
As for me, I would love to wake up in the middle of the night and find my wife straddling me. That would be one of the hottest things. Knowing she was so horny she just climbed on and woke me up in the process.
2006-07-28 08:56:41 · answer #2 · answered by waterfowlwidowmaker 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Getting amorous during the night is normal enough. Is he sleeping himself,? Then wake him up, if he is not sleeping and it weirds you out tell him to do what others do when self gratification is the only goal. Buy a toy.
2006-07-27 22:35:51 · answer #3 · answered by JR 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
um... hate to break it to you sweetheart but its called rape. the definition is when someone has intercourse with you without your conscent.. or thats one version of the definition. and since he thinks youre sleeping then you obviously didnt agree to it. if he was at least somewhat decent about it he wouldn't try to act like he's sleeping when you wake up. he would ask if its okay for him to have sex with you. he WANTS you to be unconscious. little alarms and bells should be going off in your head that he's bad news. tell him to keep it in his pants. you're not a toy. personally, id drop kick him to the curb. he has sick fantasies and i wouldnt want to open that can of worms.
2006-07-27 21:38:18 · answer #4 · answered by a_chatham926 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sorry no or should I say as a good christian man NO WAY I would love the woman I love more than that and I honor and cherish her more than that. He just want a cheap booty call tell him it is more important to you than that so STOP
2006-07-27 21:30:34 · answer #5 · answered by nicky62 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yea thats extremely wierd my b/f knows that everytime we have sex id like to know we're having sex
2006-07-27 21:29:40 · answer #6 · answered by Cool Chick 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
maybe hes dreaming of having sex with you, but also sounds like your kinda into it to or you would ask him bout doing that instead of seeing what he will do next
2006-07-27 21:31:43 · answer #7 · answered by TJR 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
they would always wake up i like a live and awake subject
2006-07-27 21:30:21 · answer #8 · answered by dirtdevil215 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you must be a sound sleeper order for him to make love to you like that . and if you like it let it be if you do not like it tell him to get off. best of luck .
2006-07-27 21:34:04 · answer #9 · answered by celticdragon 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
he must be really small because i promise you if i go in you are going to wake up
2006-07-27 21:31:21 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋