im 5"4 i have red hair and im meidium build
2006-07-27 14:22:20 · 24 answers · asked by alyson f 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
There is probably guys that see you and want to meet you and get to know you, but it's all about how you present yourself to him. If a guy doesn't like the way you are then it isn't worth being with him anyways. So just keep meeting people and giving people chances. And who know it just might be someone close to you and you don't realize it yet. You never know. One of my best friends liked me for months and when I finally found out we went out for a long time, and we still like each other a lot.
2006-07-27 14:29:25 · answer #1 · answered by brian 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Wear skimpy clothes that show skin, act like a ditz that has no opinion of her own, and put out on the first date, hell, the first hour if you can manage.....All excellent advice if you want to land some douche bag that will treat you like a dim-witted slut with no self-esteem. Truth is, there's alot of truly excellent advice already on here that you should follow. Just be yourself, be happy in who you are, and accept everything there is about you, including the faults. Because you'll never find happiness in a relationship, much less a date until you do. But if you like a guy, smile at him, listen to what he has to say, if he doesn't talk to you, strike up a conversation about some of your interests. If all else fails, go up and ask him out yourself, suggest something fun to do instead of a movie. Worse thing he can do is say no, and even though that sucks sometimes, there are over a billion guys on this Earth!! Good luck! : )
2006-07-27 15:07:41 · answer #2 · answered by holleygirl11 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You'll be ok....all it takes is 1. The way life is set up it seems like you're only lucky enough to find a handful of people who think the world of you....unfortunate, but it can be good in a way as well. It's all about finding your soulmate and if it takes some time so be it. It'll happen.
2006-07-27 14:32:15 · answer #3 · answered by jh361 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First of all you should build your own confidence. If you are unhappy with yourself then no one will also try not looking for a guy let them come to you or you can always appear taken and for some reason that makes guys want you.
2006-07-27 14:27:14 · answer #4 · answered by staringmommy 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you sound realy great looking, if you were over 21 and living in my neighbourhood i'd consider asking you out myself.
nevertheless that does not answer the question. so here goes. all you have to do is be yourself, and instead of waiting for guys to approach you try what i got a best answer for (don't believe me check through my q and a in my answers profile).
simply have a few cards printed with your name, email address ( a special one just set up for the purpose of dating) and a special phone number (try a skype in or yahoo in number for example, you may even like to add your IM username on the card.
now you have your cards all you need to do is go out as normal and may be go to the local shops and cafes and when you see a guy you like ask him for his name and number and give hime one of the cards. now repeat for each guy you see, just say i think we could be friends or words to that effect don't put any pressure on the guys (not all of us like feeling presured into a relationship). now sit back and wait for yor emails, IMs and phone calls to come in.
the girl who rated me a best answer got 8 numbers in one afternoon if my memory is correct.
good luck. i hope this helps.
and remeber you can not make or force anyone to like you. we are all different and thankfully so. what a dull and boring world if we all liked the same things or looked alike for example.
we all liki different people and things is what i mean.
2006-07-27 14:35:15 · answer #5 · answered by thebestnamesarealreadytaken0909 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
have you asked any guys out ? that always works for me when a girl asks me out i will never say no its rude if i do. i am not the most handsome guy in the world and from what you describe of yourself you are a very lovely girl you just might also be trying to find the wrong guys
2006-07-27 14:27:42 · answer #6 · answered by wrenchbender19 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Try to be cool person. Dont do much makeup. Wait and c their is some one for u who is going to ask u. Dont rush or u will find a guy who is player. Who just go out with u for fun.
2006-07-27 14:27:10 · answer #7 · answered by Moh 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
be yourself, find someone just a little taller then you find someone that shares your interests just mingle talk to guys flirt a little act like they cant have you i know that guys like that. But make sure to be yourself!!!
Good Luck
God bless
My sis has red hair and man i ROCKS
2006-07-27 14:30:18 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well be yourself do thing that the certain guy likes and make yourself avilable just don't throw yourself out there and seem despret(even if you are) & most of all play it cool and prey
P.S.
Good Luck
2006-07-27 14:28:35 · answer #9 · answered by alfred v 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hate to say it. but men are dawgs, so putting out, would really raise your popularity.
But its better you just try to improve your social skills, learn to listen better, smile a lot, be happy. That will be better in the long run.
2006-07-27 14:27:27 · answer #10 · answered by johnb693 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋